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I was going to say that your list seems like it's a bit optimistic. It seems that you are making a giant change very abruptly which could be damaging if you fail. You say you completed everything on the list though so congrats man. You're making the right steps toward becoming a better person. I respect you for that.
I'm currently on day 15 of no masturbation myself. I usually do it pretty frequently like almost every day. It was way harder to resist in the first week than in the second week. I feel pretty good now though. My reason for stopping is because I have heard that it makes you more motivated which I want to be. Although to be honest I don't really feel any more motivated than I did while I was masturbating lmao. Oh well. I'm going to continue until I get to have sex. That will happen in 2 weeks when my girlfriend returns from her trip overseas.
Best of luck.
Cheers brother.
Hi, u were right. The list was much and I got overwhelmed by the list. It lead to depression for a few days. Then I came across a book "mini habit".
It changed the way I think. Instead of trying to do everything in large proportion, why don't I do it little by little and build a habit!
It has really been helpful. This is the 1st time I have been consistent in a while.