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I'm going to try one more time. It is easier for a woman to lure a man into sex than it is for a man to lure a woman into sex. It is harder for a man to resist the offer of sex than it is for a woman to resist the offer of sex. This is why women don't need pick-up techniques to work on men. I don't need to learn how men think to get a man with ease.
I don't disagree with anything I was just saying something nobody else was actually seeing this forum is full of guys lying to themselves that they're going to be happy from sex.
By the natural laws of courtship a woman's role in the courtship process is to LURE a man into sex. A man's job is to recognize attraction signals and act accordingly. His job is to escalate the interaction until he does something wrong and she disqualifies him. 9 out of 10 times she sends signals before he approaches.
1. Attention
2. Recognition
3. Interaction
4. Touch
5. Sex
Note: David Givens, Love Signals
A man's job is more to be assertive and put himself out there and do the right things in the right order (calibrated escalation is how we get to sex no luring women).
Women still need to learn to be their most feminine self so that they can attract a man by sending signals properly so a man can pick up on them and move the interaction forward.
Courtship is not just a woman dresses sexy and she looks at a guy and he comes over... it's far more intricate and beautiful than that.
Men don't need pick up tricks for women, in fact most tricks I'm highly against I'm about perpetual growth, A growth mindset overall and you just becoming the best most masculine you that you can be, then learning to communicate and calibrate If your masculine in nature escalation is natural.
The fact is one of the best things you can learn is to be more feminine when it comes to getting men, not being direct but learning to passively suggest things better. If you want to pick up chicks then sure pick up stuff and bull shit game will work for you but at some point you have to create tension with a woman even as a woman to pull her home, the comfort comes naturally but attraction and sexiness... you need to learn to build that sexual and positive emotional tension with a woman and that's different for you than for a man.
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