Lucifer all great observations and valid points i will break it down here:
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It's a great guide skills, always liked your work on the club game.
I've only so often tried with sexting with mixed results.
I think one should also be aware of the disadvantages, which in my opinion are:
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Maniac risk
If no attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is established, there's a high danger of coming off as a maniac.
The danger is still high if connection is there and doesn't completely disappear not even when attraction is present.
I would not say maniac, but as a creepy, uncalibrated, pervert... If you come across like that, you are not doing it right... If you notice i say numbers do not mean anything, unless strong chemestry, vibe and sexual escalation/makeout. I only get numbers from women that are heavily into me, and i had done tons of stuff with them at the club in my case. I am super heavy on screening, and i have about 5 post on screening.
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High risk
Even when attraction and/or a minimum level of connection is there, this is still high reward and... High risk.
I think that "attraction" is much more important than connection.
How many personal encounters with possibly great girls that are not yet that attracted to you you might be missing by going all out via text?
Also one danger is that you make a girl horny right there right now, but... You know that attraction has an expiration date. She might go out that same evening and find another guy to appease her desires.
Or she might slot you as a text buddy.
Anyway, if you don't have time, if you're only looking for a certain kind of sexual encounter, if you don't mind about burning a lot of leads, then fine, otherwise one should be aware of the dangers.
I focus on arousal and i believe arousal creates attraction, i do not care about connecting much, since all i am doing is screening for down to fuck through text and selling myself as a fun, not judgmental lover... Some of the girls get so hooked kind of addicted to your text if you do it right.
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How much does it really boost your chances?
You might burn a lot of leads, but there are upsides: that you are much more likely to sleep with the girl you are going to meet and quickly weed out the non interested. Great.
But if you're good enough once in person and chances are high that you will sleep with the girl you're going with anyway, sexting only raises your chances by a little bit.
Again i am screening for down to fuckness, and for having sex. Yes ideally some guys like my friend warped mindless do exactly what you just said, i do not want to take the chance of not fucking in person. Let me explain, i want her to know that the next encounter will be 100% a sexual encounter, even if we do some stupid shit like renting a movie, i do not want ANY room for error. By the way i actually enjoy texting for me is a form of self amuzement and entertainment... So if you notice i could just go for the meet right away, but i am screening for personality of the girl, i want to get to know her as a women, and i want to open up to me sexually.
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Who do you get?
Do you mainly (note: I say mainly, not only) get "party girls" with sexting, risking to burn the bridges with shyer, "sunday girls"?
Possibly so.
I'm not say it won't work on "sunday girls", and obviously not saying that they're better than "party girls", just that the hit rate with them might be much much lower with sexting than with a "normal" approach.
All types of girls, from all professions. I did a post on church girl, look for it. The idea in your head that some women are "party girls" and others are "Different" is a myth all women are the same "Sexual", they just put on a show for "Society". Read my post on secret society
http://www.theskillsmethod.com/exposing ... n-insider/
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Better suited for some guys than for others
I would say that it works best with guys that already give off sexy vibes.
While you don't need to be super sexy or muscular to give off sexy vibes, it certainly helps.
As an example, take me: short, thin (proudly slim fit ), glasses and well dressed. While I can do manage at times to pull off the sexy guy, sexting would definitely work better for a big body builder. A girl can imagine this kind of guy to slam her against the wall if he tells her so (and maybe she does even without him telling anything).
Unless she's really small and lightweight, it would be a bit more of a stretch to imagine me doing that (but it would work well if I wanted to screen for creative/imaginative girls )
All said, if you fit the bill with attraction, are quick to move on if no meet in sight, want to be 100% sure of having sex upon meet up, don't mind the high risk of losing many girls (and possibly that one you really like)... Then by all means you can go for it .
^ I disagree there is a dude name teevester who is the king of sexual talk, he is not muscular at all, this i a limiting belief. Most women do not like body builders.