I: you're the first girl whom I message after a double blue checked... I must be becoming insane haha
(Ok for those who are gonna say "Dont feed an interaction if she doesnt" "Are u crazy? You re gonna lose value..Now she will look at you as a needy worm... Worm!! You should jump from a bridge". Well for those who are that radical, when the objection is not the value but instead, shields, or that she has felt rejected, or even that she sees you with too much value; She is also gonna leave blue checks!. I know from past experience)
She: I am priviliged haha
I: I notice you distant
She: Idk.. I am really lazy on whatssap
I: I think that I know the true reason:
I: I am also quite lazy. But my sexy male's intuition never lies...
She: haha reaally? so what is it according to your male's intuition?
I: It is that you dont want to give me back my 3$ hahaha
I: hahaha na.... I guess what is ... But I want you to tell me
She: hahaha well by the now I am not that poor
She: And what do you guess... I am curious
I: Tell me first and I will next... open up with absolute honesty..Im not gonna get mad or something
She: It is gonna look like an excuse but lately I dont have time enough... due to my family who are in hardship, studies, the job..
I: Im sorry to hear that referred to your family
I: Anyway if you dont want that we see each other again just tell me.. Im not gonna get mad
She: hahaha shit happens
She: The thing is that now I want to focus on my studies and helping my family
I: Well I send you the biggest hug. i hope that you allovercome it
I: Lol it wasn't what I believed then
She: haha thannk youu:)
She: what did you believe?
I: (btw: If you need to vent or something, feel free to do it. I'll love to listen to you)
I: Well... I think it was coz... you know.. when I told you about that girl I noticed you really angry.. I thought for a moment that I was talking to the evil hahaha
I: I know how you girls are and I know that now you'll deny it. be honest haha
She: haha did I really look that mad??
She: Well the truth is that I found it from you a bit of an asshole but idk...
She: I didnt know that I seemed like if that affected me that much
I: I know that I was a bit douchbag/asshole. It wasnt my intention to make you feel that way. Just the other way around, I think talking about the sexual past is a way of building trusting and confidence. It is a value which I really appraise, and that few girls have. (here I wanted to see if she "fell in the hoop", I mean, if she says smtng like "No no I also think that value is important" or similar.)
But yeah I admit that I was an asshole and I apologize. I wanted to build confidence/trusting. You know that I was really loving * 2 HADAS* and the last thing I wanted was to hurt you.
Friends again? I'll give you the best massage to compensate you
(I said "Friends" but not meaning its literal meaning)
She: hahaha wow how good you write and express yourself... your university's assignments must be the best
(I've rewritten the whole text coz Im translating it from french, but yeah it looked really formal and cool in that language)
(I also understood by this compliment, that the value was not the problem indeed)
She: haha yes sure. You dont have to apologize, some things you told me impacted me a bit... but from the day that I met you I was really nice to meet you, for that reason I met up with you
She: Only thing is that now I dont see myself with time to be with someone in that way... but friends is terrific/cool !
I: Well Well...For me, having a serious relationship is something that is upon the initial chemistry between two persons, and over the time.. so much time.
(I intended to mean that now it is too soon to have anything serious. Coz I think that she thought from the beginning that we were gonna have it)
I: well you know that I am a guy who likes to improve himself and also curious.
The real reason has to do with attraction or that you see me as an asshole?
Im not gonna get mad, nor you"re gonna break my heart, nor Im gonna need a psychologist specialized in relationships hahaha be honest
She: *A shitty joke about mine (the one about the psycholgist)* haha it is not a problem with your body haha it is just that I think that we are not for each other (In reality she didnt tell me that "we dont connect too much" the thing is that at first i didnt know how to correctly translate haha)
I:Idk... I had never felt something so special when stroking a neck. Maybe we should not lose everything after the destiny made that the touch of my fingers and your hear come across.
I: oh well it was Obvious that it was not about my attractiveness hahaha na jokin'.
I: What I see is that you re not so sexually comfortable yet
She: Hahaha noo no I dont want to end up badly with you, coz I think you re so so nice
(she says so due to "Lose everything" (what i write))
She: maybe maybe hahaha
I: Ok ok agree... just friends (winks) hahahaha na jokin'
I: hahah I found it cute, coz I could see that you want something else, not just fucking
I: btw fuckk I didnt make you that question.. nothing sexual though haha
(It is a question that I told her on our 2nd date that I wanted to ask)
She: hahahah Ooo no way, I am really stubborn in that aspect
She: I have to think it over a lot before doing anything with a guy.
(I see here that she "passes into the hoop". like she tries to show complience with my expectations and standards.)
She: I am really curious for that question !
I: Wow how romantic.. I got my heart broken in the past for that reason.. I hate to say this but I am a Teddy bear inside haha
I: Well it is happening to me only with you.. but the thing is that Im really shy of asking it.
She: Hahaha wow yeah I am more romantic of what I'll ever admit
She: How weird coz it is usually the other way around.
She: come onnn askk pls