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And what does being dominant and outcome independent have to do with being borderline socially retarded? You simply cannot expect a guy talking to a woman for two minutes be enough for her to come over to your house. That is ludacrious.
It's only appears ludicrous to guys who don't have that skill set.
When you have followed all the steps of personal evolution, use charming, shocking honesty to disarm women are confident, increase your vocabulary thorough reading and NOT tv, and get to the point, these types of hookups happen a lot.
Women want sex just as much, if not more so than men. If they want you, they want you. You won't need to "warm them up". When a man with abundance mentality meets, and has a powerful connection with a 9/10 woman who has that mentality, the "small talk" is jettisoned pretty quick.
Solid eye contact, a lustful connection (both parties in great shape) and a pleasant, flirty two minutes will do the job of a Netflix invite. And if they don't bite that night, BE COOL and don't blow up their phone with drunk bullshit, and they'll come back...especially after the meet a few waffly guys who hem and haw about what to do, can;t make a decision and roll out the red carpet for their queens on the first date.
The fast Netflix invite has a couple internal reactions:
"Wow, who the fuck does he think he is?"
"This guy moves fast. Hmmm...."
"Finally, a guy who gets to the point."
"It's been a long time since I've had sex. Should I? Should I?"
What do you notice about all those internal thoughts?
Not one of them is fucking boring.
Let that invite hang, and you're the "bad boy". But like I said, don't follow it up with drunk texts, compliment texts or "how is your day?" bullshit. Just let it hang, and game other women. The more you do this, the more you let yourself not fear outcome, and the more you value YOUR TIME, and your needs, and shed the nice guy pleaser mentality.
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And if "you need a high level of fitness" for that to work, which even if you're Adonis himself it won't work more often than it will, then why the hell are you giving that advice to every other guy on this forum?
Because everyone should be striving for a good fitness level. And by fitness I mean removing the water/weight carb bloat from your face and adding some muscle. You don;t have to be a weightlifting weirdo who rubs tanning cream on himself and wears Speedos.
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That's like me saying "oh just pick up the sword and go swing, you'll be fine". And when the guy comes back all fucked up from the battle I'll be like "Oh yeah, that's right, you also need years of intense training and disciplined dieting".
Yeah, it can be tough out there.
I believe that grown men learn best from being thrown into the fire. I do not coddle.