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Hey forums, yesterday me and a couple of my male friends met up just to chill, about an hour later my 3 other friends came by with a girl I haven't seen before, apparently they know her for a while, even though I hang out with them quite often I've never seen or heard about her. They stayed for a good 30-45minutes and I really started to like the girl, none of them are dating her and she just got out of what I assume is a LTR. Even though the interaction was quite brief, we clicked very easily and naturally, she responded very positively to the things I said and was quite engaging towards me, I would say the interaction was playful, yet wasn't laced with a lot of sexual tension (it was not the type of situation where I could have isolated her, so I hesitated from being too direct and flirty with her because our mutual friends were present). I think I received a few IOI's, but not enough for me to state that she is already attracted to me, I'm not sure if I'm going to see her soon which is where the problem lies.. I want to meet her again, but not necessarily ask her out immediately, seems a bit too direct at this point, which I would consider as an option if not for the recently ended LTR.
Any advice?
Stop looking for "IoI's" and just assume attraction.
And flirt with her, flirting is supposed to be light and fun, not something serious to be hidden from friends,