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No one here offers any actual advice regarding 'seducing' (or lots of other things) in any specific manner.
Specific manner? Jack spoon fed the guy. I have an entire specific guide linked in my sig. We explained how getting a woman on a date works. Then he ignored it either way but how much more fucking specific does it need to get?
And what's your contribution to the topic besides the usual nihilism?
Jack had some good "after-the-fact" analysis that he provided. His suggestion about ass vs. legs compliments was about the only specified advice given (good bit, too).
On the flip side, your link doesn't say anything about 'flirting' but rather about texting or dating, which aren't directly related to 'flirting' in my mind (more like well, texting, or setting up dates, etc.). So update your sig to say it has more. Additionally, your smidge on flirting is completely vague, as expected. This guy is supposed to figure out then how to 'tease and/or challenge' the girl - but why would he be here if he could already figure this out himself?
So yeah, my contribution is to tell him to run away from here. And her. As will follow.
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Sent her that right away. That was over 4 hours ago. No response.
She seemed really interested at the cafe. She even followed me outside to make it easy for me to pick her up!
I don't understand. What's going on?
Should I just delete her number at this point and forget about her, or try hitting her up again sometime in the future? If, yes, when and how?
Thanks
Forget about her. Stop contacting her. Stop thinking about her.
First of all, the initial attraction and level of interest were too weak. Sometimes its out of your hands - just accept it.
Secondly, you've made yourself out to be a desperate pussyhound with your text 'Arch Stanton' style. It was an easy attempt at a lay, it failed (odds of working were slim to nil), and now she likely thinks even less of you. That's OK, you didn't lose much anyway.
Thirdly, I'm curious about this first encounter you had with her. You said she followed you out of the cafe. Did she look at you when she exited the cafe? Did she attempt to make conversation first? Are you sure she wasn't just going out for a smoke (is she a smoker)? Are you accurately portraying that whole ordeal in the cafe the first time?