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I really believe God made us for the sole purpose to have sex with each other.
We're all made that way, lol.
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We also went to a private wellness together and she loved it. On several occasions she told me she started having feelings but I always told her I wasn't looking for a serious relationship.
Okay....
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I went to her place and she told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship, that her feelings were not enough for this to work, that she felt she couldn't breath anymore... I was pissed. It was her who had feelings, not me! WTF!
you smothered her by over-contact. The phone is for meet ups only. PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN and stop texting like a teen girl. Go do man stuff.
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She asked for a hug and started licking my neck and whispering in my ear "you gave me the best sex ever" and shit like that. Then when I told her I was leaving she asked for one last kiss and told me I could still stay the night. Like I said, for some reason I was REALLY pissed and just took off (FML, I should have banged her so hard).
Emotionally-uncentered.
Girl loved the sex, but you couldn't keep an even emotional keel, thus her erratic behavior.
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After a couple of days I started texting her, that we should still have the sex because it was so great and that I missed her. She never responded. When I was drunk I sent some voice messages. She never responded. One night she (finally) responded that she really wanted to have sex with me but things got to complicated and she could not act like nothing happened.
Why send so many "plz respond" messages. You were emotionally-uncentered yet again.
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I really want things to be like they were in the beginning.
Can anyone tell me what the f.. just happened here and how I can get her back?
Pull back. Don't contact her. And if she contacts you, invite her over. Stop barfing your feelings over the phone and text. She is nothing more than a fuck buddy at this point, and you blew it by sending too many emotional Debbie Downer texts. It's still salvageable if you can prove you aren't needy and emotional. Learn the appropriate way to text with new women.