How to freeze out a girl properlyWhen it should be done:
1. When she's being rude
3. When you just want to do it because you want to increase her feelings for youHow to react
1) If she's being rude:
Just start to answer cold and non-reactive (1~4 words would be great as answers)
Never say or show what she did, she shouldn't be aware why you are mad at her - She shouldn't even know that you are mad, just pretend that everything is ok, keep the coldness and try to get out of there as soon as possible so you can start the freeze out!
If you are on the phone: Just say "Ok i have to go now, bye" (say it as cold as you can say let her answer and hang up) - If she's asking what is happening just say: "Nothing! Why?"... let her answer whatever and say: ok bye (keep the coldness)
If you are over facebook or whatever text thing: Just leave and don't answer her (if she sees that is marked as seen, don't mind about it, it's ok!)
Don't tell her to fuck off, don't react!! Act like if you don't want to talk to her anymore (cold) but never explain!
If she asks what is happening never say anything about it, act if nothing is really happening!
What if she asks what is happening? Just say: "Nothing, why? Should i be mad at you?" And never say why you are mad, keep the coldness and leave asap!2) If you want to increase her feelings for you
The day before the freeze out, just try to have the best conversation ever, make her feel as special as you can (complements, do things for her, make her laugh) and then disappear for 2 days <- This way she'll feel the loss more intensely!
When should this be done? - Well, it can be done in the middle of your conversation or you can do it the next day.3) And if she's just not doing things i want her to do for me?
Well, don't freeze her out because of that, because she'll see that you are behaving like a childish kid.
Just act like if that is not bothering you, and freeze her out for other reasons, but make sure she'll not relate the freeze out for that particular reason.What to do next?
Well, just freeze her for 2 days (1 day is nothing, 2 days will make her start to have ideas about what might be happening, 3 days she's pissed of at you)
Make sure you become offline for the entire world, she shouldn't know that you are avoiding her, she shouldn't know anything! She needs to guess over and over so she can have her mind occupied with you in it.How to come back to the convo? (the preference is over text)If she did something rude:
Just start the convo as cold as you have been before, and if she realizes what she did (that you didn't like) then tell her right away: "Yeh that was bad i didn't like it". She'll come up with an excuse why she did it and you should accept her apologies and move on over the conversation back to your normal state || If she doesn't know what she did, just point it out by saying: Hey, i didn't like what you did, that's why i didn't talk to you until now -> so she can realizes that you are putting yourself in charge of her, and you were punishing her by her behavior.If you want to increase her feelings about yourself:
Open the convo as cold as you can, get a lot of time to reply and just answer cold (1 ~ 4 words) - If she asks what have happened or is happening and why you have disappeared, just tell her that nothing happened, you just have a lot of work to do, but why is she asking that, then you ask her what happened. Then move on to a normal as possible conversation.
Example (when you want to increase feelings)
She: Hey how are you?
(10mins you go offline)
(20min after that you come back)
She: Why have you disappeared?
You: Hum? I didn't disappear, i'm here. What do you mean?
She: You didn't talk to me for 2 days
You: I had a lot of work to do, don't mind about it
She: You could have tell me, fuck i was so worried
You: Don't be, when i have a lot of work i'm always like this, i just need time for myself and my work. <- this means that she's below your work, but still, she can't say anything about your work because it's part of your responsibilities (if you say that you were playing games for 2 days, then she'll pissed off)
(ut if she asks) She: So i'm less important than your work?
You: What do you mean? (she'll not say: "Because i love you", these freeze outs should be done before, she she'll come up with nothing like that)
(but if she does) She: Because i have feelings for you! And i miss you!
You: Well i didn't expect that coming, but anyway i'm good, don't worry, so <change topics>What if she asks if you were avoiding her?
(if she was rude) Just tell her that it's part of your personality
, that when you don't like something you just stop talking to people so you don't get reactive and you fuck the things up with the people that you like.OR
(if you froze her out because you wanted to increase her feelings about yourself) Tell her that you had so much work to do and when that happens you shout down yourself from the rest of the world because you need time for your self, but it's totally normal on yourself and when things get back to normal you come back as you did. - she'll tell you to warn her next time, and you should do it, otherwise she'll start to get pissed at you. So next time you just tell her that you have work to do, and then you freeze her for as much time as you want to! She'll start to text you at that point, you answer, make sure you make a short convo and then you tell her that you need to get back to work and you keep the freeze out.Best flirts that will work out even better
Always give her the "have a good day" by the morning (or whatever flirt you want to do) because she'll miss these little routines the days you are freezing her out.Cares you should make
If it's a special occasion (her Birthday for example), you should avoid to freeze her out because she might be the one pissed at you (if you think this might not happen, then do it anyway)
If you start to do it over and over, she'll get use to it, and she'll think it's just part of your personality, so it becomes a routine for her, and she'll start to realize that after all those days with no contact, you'll come back.
Make sure you are not posting things on social media so she truly doesn't know what is happening (if she starts to think that you died or something, cool!! But don't make anyone say that shit!!! No lies like that!)
If she's trying to contact you, make sure she doesn't know that you read her messages. If it's over the phone, well make sure you have it turned off or you have blocked her.Final tips
She shouldn't know that you are freezing her out, the idea is to make her guess what is happening so she can create all those ideas about "what it's happening with him?" so she can feel your loss and miss you. Because when you come back, she'll be like a dog waiting for you to lick you.
Why you shouldn't tell her what is happening when she's being rude to you? Well, because over the freeze out, she'll have more ideas to think on (maybe she'll start to realize that she need to improve other things on her, it's win-win for you buddy!)
If your freeze outs are losing its potential, just tell her that if you start to be less present it's because you are missing something and then tell her that at that point she's not missing with anything you are just telling her something about your personality that she doesn't know (so she thinks that at that moment everything is ok, so she gets more confused the next freeze out).