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PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2016 6:08 am 
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I find I have a hard time holding eye contact while walking by people or in dining areas. What are some ways to practice maintaining eye contact with a person from across the room and how long is too long for holding this. Thank you


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 02, 2016 7:31 am 
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try taking a walk and holding eye contact with each and every women who walks past you, hold the eye contact till the women looks away, or starts smiling, as you practice this, you will instinctively know how to make good eye contact. and always focus on looking at one eye not both eyes, narrow your focus.


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 Post subject: Re: Holding Eye Contact
PostPosted: Sat Dec 03, 2016 9:41 pm 
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Practice on the street, three times a day, to make eyes with a chick for at least 3 seconds.

For any intermediate, they would think this is lame.

But after two or three weeks, you'll get over it.

It has to do with self-esteem and experience.

Do not stare, "just a second longer" can be a nice non verbal glance.

Of course, if you're getting some serious eyes, maybe you should just go over and say hello.

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 Post subject: Re: Holding Eye Contact
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Vitriol_Prophet wrote:
I find I have a hard time holding eye contact while walking by people or in dining areas. What are some ways to practice maintaining eye contact with a person from across the room and how long is too long for holding this. Thank you


smile is the key!!!

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+1 for trying to hold eye contact for 3 seconds while walking down the street and passing by girls that are also walking. You can do it. If 3 seconds it too uncomfortable at first, try 2 seconds.


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 Post subject: Re: Holding Eye Contact
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bobZZZ wrote:
Vitriol_Prophet wrote:
I find I have a hard time holding eye contact while walking by people or in dining areas. What are some ways to practice maintaining eye contact with a person from across the room and how long is too long for holding this. Thank you


smile is the key!!!


Not the smile, but the smirk is the key!


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 Post subject: Re: Holding Eye Contact
PostPosted: Tue Apr 11, 2017 12:56 pm 
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One of my favourite techniques for practicing holding eye contact is as you're walking down the street,
look at people straight in the eyes.


And if someone calls you out for it, just say, "Oh, I thought you were somebody I know."

This gives you safety, and also enables you to practice holding eye contact with people.

And the more you do it, the more comfortable you'll feel with it.

Definitely try it, it helped me a lot.

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Thnaks a lot. Your advices helped me too.

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 Post subject: Re: Holding Eye Contact
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No long is too long. You hold the eye contact until she looks away. But the whole eye thing isn't what to focus on: Talk to women, engage with them. Yes, eye contact is cool but it's not a deal breaker.


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