So heres what happened....
-met on tinder
-went for a drink at a local bar for a chat & meet, found I share some common passions with her (sports, being an entreprenuear etc). I think we both found the conversation interesting, although I failed to pull all the emotional strings & be cheeky/fun or neg etc.
Tease and be playful.
What the fuck?
No escalation on date 1?
That's a failed date. Use a combination of playfulness and teasing to reduce anxiety and increase sexual innuendo.
Do yourself a favor and watch the series "Californication". That's how a guy acts who gets laid on the regular. Women love it.
Just get to the point. The combination of a decent physique and directness will drastically increase your first date hook ups.
I allow 45 minutes on a date before I ask a woman back to my place (assuming she makes the cut, which is about a 10% rate when I'm single).
Women DO NOT want you to drag them along on multiple dates with no escalation. It's boring as hell, and conveys a weak man skirting around SCIENCE and REALITY (IE, men and women go on dates to get laid).
she suggested we go for a walk along the beachfront and coffee... We did that again struggled to push past the small talk bs
You failed again to be playful and teasing.
At the end of the date I suggested we goto the movies soon as i had won a double pass.
- texted her today, asking if she thought the movie was her type to watch, and my reply... "Hi, you seem like a nice guy, but I dont see this going anywhere. Best of luck in the tindersphere."
hahha, man. Ah that sucks, but saw it coming from a mile away.
You basically acted like you didn't have a dick. Do not be afraid of going for what you want. Women respect a man who respects their time and who gets to the point.
The movie thing was sad.
1. do nothing and write it off
4. say something along the lines of....You & I havent had long enough to warm upto each other. (which is mostly true, when im on point the ladies of my past relationships have found me to be quite funny. I think i just lack the courage sometimes to take the risk of offending them with my weird sense of humour.
No, this is terrible. You had two dates to act like a dominant male and seduce a woman (and be good in bed).
Attractive women have guys lining up. If you act sexless, you're gone.
Have you ever heard women talk with their girlfriends?
It's dirty, man. and to the point. They don't fuck around, and neither should you.
Women want shocking honesty, firm, direct men, teasing, to catch a buzz, have mindblowing passionate sex (orgasms), and then to have you tell them your secrets while snuggling.
Rinse and fucking repeat. Everything else is COMPLETE BULLSHIT, and then we die.
I had a threesome last night with my gf and one of her friends. They were so dirty even I was shocked temporarily. It was filthy, lol.
Women are wild animals, not princesses or fragile flowers. They are generally more intelligent than men, and probably like sex even more. There are no "tricks". You be yourself, hit the gym, and use playful honesty and teasing and lead. This is what separates yourself from the nice guys who get friend-zoned.