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Fuck your mindset. The number is not the goal. The goal is to fuck her, so go fuck her. You are probably nervous because when you have a goal that means you can fail in that goal if you assume there is no other benefit.
This is a hobby, when I enjoy it I'm all in and when I'm not I don't bother. Maybe instead of setting the goal of a number or lay, you should focus on practicing good technique. That goal is entirely on you, whereas you can make a lay the goal and fail due to nothing you actually did wrong.
I guess I will not worry about getting a girls phone number when I approach her. I will just focus on developing my ability to talk to girls without caring about whats going on, or could happen. Also do you think it is better to ask a girl for social media such as snapchat, instead of asking for their phone number? I just thought that since my goal would be to take a girl out on a date, I should ask for their number. But, I have found in some of my research that snapchat can work too. By the way I am am currently attending a university, so I am approaching girls on a college campus not on the street, or at a club.