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Just so we are clear I've used this line many times before. It has nothing to do with one's low sense of self worth. A guy using this line, it is exactly like saying to the girl "Hey, you are pretty, please keep talking to me"

It really doesn't say that. It simply says "Hi, you're cute". That's it. Whether she perceives it as "please keep talking to me" has more to do with how you present yourself and how you say it, rather than the words themselves.

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The whole point of game, is how to maximize your odds of gaining attraction. And not to 'wing it' and see. I would like to think of it is as more than "choice of words". It is a communication.

If you like this line, great : )

Yes, it is more than choice of words. If you said your the one line in a fun and light way, the response would likely be humorous in return, as opposed to "I'm kinda seeing someone".
If you're getting that often it's because you're being too upfront, too soon.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 29, 2017 10:22 am 
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Designs wrote:
Just so we are clear I've used this line many times before. It has nothing to do with one's low sense of self worth. A guy using this line, it is exactly like saying to the girl "Hey, you are pretty, please keep talking to me"

It really doesn't say that. It simply says "Hi, you're cute". That's it. Whether she perceives it as "please keep talking to me" has more to do with how you present yourself and how you say it, rather than the words themselves.

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The whole point of game, is how to maximize your odds of gaining attraction. And not to 'wing it' and see. I would like to think of it is as more than "choice of words". It is a communication.

If you like this line, great : )

Yes, it is more than choice of words. If you said your the one line in a fun and light way, the response would likely be humorous in return, as opposed to "I'm kinda seeing someone".
If you're getting that often it's because you're being too upfront, too soon.



Hypothetically, let's say I used that line "Hi, you are cute". I will get the same results as I'm getting.

How would you use such a line and be genuine at the same time?


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To all, If i say something about your reply posts, it is because I am asking questions. It has nothing to do with me, not being respectful to anyone.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 29, 2017 10:37 am 
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Hypothetically, let's say I used that line "Hi, you are cute". I will get the same results as I'm getting.

How would you use such a line and be genuine at the same time?


Hi, I know this is a bit random, but I saw you and thought you're cute. I'm RC.

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Hypothetically, let's say I used that line "Hi, you are cute". I will get the same results as I'm getting.

How would you use such a line and be genuine at the same time?


Hi, I know this is a bit random, but I saw you and thought you're cute. I'm RC.


Since your response, I went out and talked to many girls with that opener. Where it is just like any other opener I used in the past, the problem remains sadly the same.


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First things first. 'Hi' is a canned opener and the usual responses to it are canned replies as well such as 'Hi' or 'Hello'. Anything that is normal is canned material or routine that the majority of the population does. If only a few does it or says it then it's either abnormal or above average.

Hence, by saying RC's canned opener, you got the same results: most girls walk away afterwards. So if you approached and opened 100 girls and you got zero instadates, then you should definitely try another way. So what should you say or do that will make girls stay for 3-5 minutes conversing with you and looking forward to meet up with you again or what should you do to successfully pull for the instadate? Before I answer that...

Second thing. Nothing works 100%. I'm doing good at 30% which basically means I fail to pull for the instadate 7 times out of 10. Are you good with this? If yes, try this:

1. Do some blood circulation exercises after you shower. A quick set of 100 jumping jacks should make your vibe look good.

2. Dress above average (not average/normal, not over the top, not abnormal). How do you do this? For example, if almost everybody is wearing colored shirts and jeans, wear a white shirt and jeans. If you suit up when everyone else is wearing tshirts and jeans, then that's over the top. If you wore a boa constrictor, then that's fucking abnormal.

3. Approach and open. Use this: "Hi. How are you?" If the girl replies, you're good. Some girlie replies are: Great! Good! I'm having a bad day.

If the replies are good, you raise your hand for a high five and say, "Cool."

If the girl high fives you back, intertwine your fingers with her fingers and hold her hand. Yep. Hold her hand. Make small talk while holding her hand.

When you get the girl comfortable enough with handholding, you go for the instadate. Say something like this: "Let's grab some drinks over there. I'm thirsty."

Try this 10 times. If you can make it work 1 out of 10 the first time, then you can improve your batting average to 30% after more practice. 50 girls is just about right.

If it doesn't work, try something else.

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