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PostPosted: Thu Mar 16, 2017 1:13 am 
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I have only been seeing one girl. My other fuck buddy comes back in a few days. She might help me shake this spiraling out of control situation. Not really. The current girl...well she is catching feelings. I knew this. I didn't stop it. I never said I was perfect but I did see it unfold and now I know when a girl is falling for me. She gives me the same look all my ex girlfriends gave me, that stare and you're watching tv but they look at you...


Anyway, last night she texted me "how do you feel about being my boyfriend :P " and I was like "lol, we will talk about it some other time. Get some rest"


Now, this is my fault, I have been seeing her 3 times the last two weeks. 3 times a week that is. No dates. Just getting blazed and fucking. Unfortunately, I read somewhere that I release dopamine and she releases oxytocin which is the attachment hormone. That many times in a week...yeah, I even see where my train of thought is going. Luckily, I am 25 now and I am in more control of myself. I will have to lay it on her the next time we see each other that I can't do any of that. I am sure she will understand. I am busy with my focus on my career, health, and financing travel and relocation to NYC.

As of now, I am currently just mastering the organization skills. I seem to have been sort of slacking. I have been trying to get too much done and have been burning myself out. My boss is the one that sets me straight and tells me what I need to hear. I tell you guys when you guys are fucking up but you guys don't really know me. Rarely do I ask questions now but I definitely need a hand here and there and I do ask for it. I thank those that help me. For now, I am just getting used to being assertive full time and being productive. I want big things for me this year.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 16, 2017 11:14 pm 
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Not a pickup report but a "Field Report"


Today I picked up a new side gig. I babysit two little kids who are caucasian. My job is to babysit, entertain, and teach them some Spanish. Now this goes with the whole idea of expanding their comfort zones and mine. I am a male babysitter for one and it's not the norm for men to watch kids. I took this job because I can do one of my favorite hobbies which is teach. I am also in the process of perfecting my Spanish so teaching it to others is a perfect way to get me focused and have a purpose for me to learn. Same thing with PUA, I learn by doing and teaching. It becomes who I am.


Anyway, enough of the Ghandi shit, I walked to this house and was greeted by the mother. She is cute and pretty smart herself. I chatted her up and practiced asserting myself. I asked questions and wanted everything prepared for me so I can watch her kids. She then took me to the bus stop and there were two other ladies. One was a grandma and one was another mom picking up her kids. I basked in the female essence that these women were displaying. I forget how intoxicating it can be having a lot of girls around. I chatted them up and kept it professional as to make a good first impression.

If I can win kids over...i can win any girl over. One of my goals is perfecting my Spanish. Getting paid...while learning some child rearing skills. Ok. Bring it on.

Possibly...meeting the other moms in the neighborhood? Lol......... :twisted: :twisted:

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2017 1:19 am 
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Field Report: Lay Report:

My roommate was in grieving so i decided to ask my cute girlfriends out to cheer him up. Being in feminine energy always brings the mood up for any man. We went to a local bar where people were celebrating St. Patricks day. I came in and there they were my 3 beautiful girls. We are just friends, I did sleep with a couple of them but we have been through alot so we keep in touch

So skimming through the friend shit we went to the back of the bar where my good friends proceeded to bust my balls. I am used to her doing this because i dish it right back. Anyway, her guy friend came by and this is the guy that she has been hooking up with. That was my cue to leave because I knew she was going to dip out early. I exchanged goodbyes, hugged and grabbed the ass of one girl who has a donk and went on my merry way.

My roommate has a girlfriend now but he still flirts and helps me out. We went to another bar where we gamed a few girls. Nothing solid since the girl that opened us was drunk and not within our standards. She was trying to get a drink but we told her that we were in line and that she has to wait ;).

I was just using her for practice and her friends come along and act weird :roll: . My wing saw the akwardness and said lets go somewhere else. I agreed and we said our goodbyes. Only one of them was in my standards. Not worth having my wing go through entertaining two of them.

I texted one of my old flings and it was a drunk text. I just asked her if she was out and about. She then told me that she was at one of the bars. I told her that we were heading there actually. She was trying to be all like "oh, we might leave soon, etc" and I called her and told her to stay put because I was already walking in.

Kate..oh Kate...I saw that she gained a couple pounds. Nothing devastating but she wasn't firm like I remember her. It has been about 2 month since I talked to her...at first I opened her nonverbally with my body. I just bumped into her and played it off like in the movies lol. She was like hiii and my roommate was there. I let them talk and I talked to her cute friend. I was straight up with her and she was straight up with me.

She said I tried too hard. I let that sink in. I made a post the other day about storytelling and it reminded me that if I talk less, the better. I told her thank you for the feedback and I appreciate it. She was very sweet and told me that she liked me but I need to cut it down a bit.

I then turned to my fling. I gamed her and told her to follow me to the front for a drink. My wing was actually signaling me to wrap it up. He was right, I already slept with her and all I needed to do was do some LMR. Now, this sounds sociopathic but I knew what was going to occur. I told her to go back to my place to which she agreed to "hang out". I brought her into my room to where I set up a show I have been watching lately. It's a great show! Rick and Morty lol.

As I laid on the bed she wasn't following the lead. I then grabbed her and placed her next to me. I tried a kiss for giggles and she was like "nope hanging out" I said ok. I let the tv do some work for 20 minutes and then tried again. We started talking and she was telling me how she didn't want to be a bang piece. I sought some closure as to why she abruptly ended the fling. I assured her that I won't make the mistake of making her feel that way. After that it was smooth sailing. Eventually I will have to let her know that I am making moves to go and move to NYC in a year. I won't be hurting her like that.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2017 5:04 pm 
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Life is going well. I am writing this first sentence to remind myself to not self sabotage this lifestyle. I have ADHD and I won't have any medication until next week. However, a week of doing nothing is detrimental for my productivity. The least I can do is move at a snails pace rather than none at all. I also need to remind myself to not overeat since I am very impulsive right now.


Back to life: I have two fuck buddies. Kate is back in the picture but I don't think I will ever see her again. Not on her part but mine. She isn't the girl I want in the end. I have been chatting up my dermatologist girls who tend to me. I invested in having my skin clean and cleansed by professionals. It's pretty expensive but the point here is to maximize my looks. It has been paying off as it has skyrocketed my confidence and I have been more risky. I chatted up this 39 year old hottie. She looks amazing for her age and I told her that. She was pretty appreciative. We kind of were flirting a bit and she joked that maybe she should date younger guys. I told her...maybe you should ;). We kept chatting but I didn't pursue it further. I didn't want to be known as the guy that asks every girl there on a date lol. I wanted to be selective if I chose to dip my pen in that particular pool of girls. I definitely flirt but I didn't ask her for her number or anything.

I walked out today from the office with solid confidence. ADHD is only amplifying it. I can't wait to be back on meds so I can organize my thoughts better...until then...

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