The FINAL outlook of PUA



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2017 11:11 am 
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PUA is great.

I haven't really incorporated PUA in my game in regards to routines etc. What PUA taught me was CONFIDENCE is the key to success AND just not giving a fuck. I love being direct, when you are not afraid to lose the girl I guarantee your success will skyrocket.

Anyway that's besides the point. Banging random sluts is good up until a certain age, eventually you're going to want to settle. I'm sure you have all heard of ROOSH V, the guy is a great pick up artist but he has recently turned 38 and stated "what was the point of banging all those girls?" he is 38 single and miserable now.

So my question is, what is the final outlook for PUA? When should you look to settle? Can you PUA until you die or will you eventually get over it and be too old to settle?

I want all your thoughts. Especially those people that were once PUAs.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2017 3:04 pm 
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How old are you out of curiosity? PUA is just self improvement...not some kind of badge...at least for me. I'm living life while sharpening my man to lady skills. PUA just helped me get on the right track. It's not a "lifestyle" for me

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2017 10:46 pm 
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The true answer is never! Pickup is more than just banging chicks. It's socially dynamics and knowing what is going to happen next when it comes to any human interaction. You have full control over the situation. I agree about pick up being more related to self improvement but pick up can make people miserable, since sometimes they may feel they're not being themselves.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2017 1:31 am 
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Know that plenty of PUA instructors that you see (many guys from RSD too) are married and don't do actively PUA anymore.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2017 3:24 am 
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Use your skill set and reference experiences to be a better lover to your partner.

A lot of men become jaded, and have bad belief systems. Rooshy is no idle.

Since you asked, do your thing, know what you want, and give your partner a chance.

PU should enhance your relationships, that's the idea, anyway. . .

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2017 4:47 am 
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Raneox wrote:
So my question is, what is the final outlook for PUA? When should you look to settle? Can you PUA until you die or will you eventually get over it and be too old to settle?

Like I said somewhere else: pick-up is like a sport. As long as you find it worth spending your time, energy and money on it, there's nothing wrong with keeping doing it. You may look back at 38 and say "all these chicks I banged were meaningless," or you may look back and say "those 25 marathons I ran were awesome."

Some are playboys until they die, some start wanting to build a deeper relationship at some point and spend their efforts on something else. In the end you make your own life choices (like Da said: know what you want), and if you end up not being satisfied with them you know who to blame. Just remember that in the end you can't take any of it with you when you kick the bucket, so you'd better enjoy it now.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2017 6:14 am 
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I was a "PUA" for about 12 weeks in 2008 - 20 years old at the time, and mostly as a joke and experiment to see if any of the routines and other crap worked. I was active in pursuing women from about age 16, and till I was 18 and moved to the US for college I had geographical uncertainty (inevitable long-distance relocation) which made pursuing anything serious worthless. Right around when I finished my PUA 'stint' at age 20 I became pretty certain about where I'd be geographically for work as I found my excepted career path in investments while studying business in undergrad. From there on I started pursuing LTRs because ultimately I want to raise a family one day and had the best dating pool available to me in the world: like-minded college girls.

That's my brief story with going from STRs/hookups to LTRs.

My question to you is: are you getting real satisfaction from what you're doing now? Do you have geographical uncertainty? Do you want a family/kids one day?

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2017 11:43 pm 
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you should have a life, hubbies, goals etc... shit outside of pua...

The people that are miserable and fucked up this whole stuff is the people that became 1 dimensional, there whole life became pick up...

Having a well balance life is the key...

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 06, 2017 3:53 pm 
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Roosh was a miserable guy during his sarging days too. Not sure I would look at him as an example on life.

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