Hi guys,

Was wondering on how the more experienced guys here would advice on rejecting a co-worker.
Tonight she texted me that she was having feelings and asked me how I felt about it. I was kind of overwhelmed and so far I told her that I took is a compliment but that it would be 2 weird since we are being co-workers. I just don't want to this to escalate.

Although we were flirting a bit nothing actually happened between us. Would totally bang her if she wasn't a co-worker though.

Tnx!

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Send this OP and don't pussy out. Considering her feelings and letting her down gently is a girl move. You have to let her know straight up what the business is. Less shit to deal with down the road since you're about all business.

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You need to straight up tell her that you don't date people from work...tell her exactly what you told us in your original post...don't overthink it, I'm sure she would understand especially if your company has policy's against dating within the company.

I have a huge thing myself when it comes to dating co-workers...in my experience things have always ended up awkward, people talk, and it's a HUGE distraction. Don't fall into that trap. As much as you'd like to sleep with her, resist that temptation since she has feelings for you..sucks man but it's not worth it.

If you don't wanna shit where you eat, you can just say so.

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Did you not just already politely reject her?

You think she's going to stalk you now?

The deed has been done bro.. She got the hint.

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Well, she still sending me texts and trying to keep up convo...

Just ignore her texts. Don't reply.

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