An overseas friend who's got plenty of game sent me some DVDs with:

John Alexanda's how to become an alpha male - working thru it - seems good basic advice but seems geared to pushing all femaile relationships to sex - don't have that much time/energy
Carlos Xuma - Ultimate Inner Game, Alpha Male conversation, Bad boy formula
Tom Torero - Conversation King
Magic bullets (1st ed)
Alan Pease - body language DVDs
Jamie Smart - Attracting Women From The Inside Out
David X - relentless seminar
Sean McPheat - how to be a master communicator (book)
Neil Strauss - the game (audio), Annihilation method - DVDs, rules of the game (book)
Love Systems - Real Social Dynamics DVD, Social Circle master DVD
(Don't know who) - Social Man - the girlfriend activation system
Richard La Ruina - The Natural How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want

Way too much material - so given I'm in my 40s and prefer natural approach, which should I start with?

Man that's a lot.

You start with the first book or DVD you get your hands on and lock all others up in a wooden chest, hide it in the basement, and board the basement door up. Information overload and paralysis through over analysis will set you back rather than move you forward.

Once you start on a book, read one chapter only and then test whatever you've read on field. Do each test on field for one week and use the techniques described in the chapter on at least 10 batches of women where one batch is a set of 10 women. After every set of 10 women, go back to that one chapter, read it again, and analyze what you have forgotten or what you didn't understand.

If after 2 sets and your failure rate is a high 100%, pour some gasoline on the book and burn it. Next, go back to you basement and take out another book.

Repeat and rinse.

For a technique that works at least 30% the first time, your success rate will further increase after using it on 10 batches where there are 10 women per batch (about 100 women). This is your cue that you should read the next chapter and repeat the process described above.

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Thanks - busy house buying at the moment.
So since the J Alexander book's on my car cd stack I'll go with that and try:

• realestate chicks
  women at my sports groups since I do that anyway
  women at the supermarket since a guy's got to eat

Will report back on what I find useful and less so. And yeah I realise it will be more of a reflection on me than JA to start with.

i have gone on youtube to find neil strauss annihilation method dvd but now its been deleted do you know where to go to find neil strauss annihilation method dvd 1 to 9? please help.

1. Ignore all of it and go to the gym. Hit it like your life depends on it for 8 weeks.
2. Approach women.
3. Bed said women.

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