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What do you mean it turns sexual? In person or by text/phone? Is she initiating the sexual talk or you?
Just imagine if you started talking about sex and the woman changes the subject. That would be a signal that she probably not interested in sex with you at the moment. So if she's starting the sexual talk, you changing the subject can be taken as you not being too interested.
This was in person and she started speaking about sex. I didn't change the subject right away, and did stay on the topic for a short period, but as I didn't know what else to add, I changed the subject.
Looking back, I can see what you mean with her thinking I'm not interested or, she knows I'm interested but it shows a massive lack of confidence I'd imagine.
Stoliar's advice seems solid and something I will try next time. I can imagine if she's responsive to it, that it would turn her on by being more personal in what I say as well as kino escalating.