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big mistake! it happened to me several times, this chick really like her and I could not handle her, I became emotional and texted her stuff similar to yours, at the end I ended up getting laid with the chick but to do that I had to start all over again and and it took me months to gain her attention back.
We've all been there, lol. The best action you can take after being emotional like this, is no action at all, as you figured out. It's what I call a "needy cleanse".
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1 I apologized and I told her my behavior was childish via text because I could not meet her in person she is busy and stuff like that..but I think the right thing is to do it in person. (she never replied accepting my apologize or not)
Don't apologize to new/newerish women or explain things to them. They see it as weak, especially if they are 8-10 in attractiveness. Apologies are for when you fuck up in exclusive relationships.
Women I date/fuck show me their texts from ex's while we're in bed, or guys who are trying to fuck them. '"Look at this Arch," they say. "how pathetic is this?" When a man apologizes to them emotionally over text, it creeps them out. It's unnecessary and makes them uncomfortable because:
1. They don't know you that well
2. You're showing too much investment
3. The relationship or hook up situation is long over.
4. It's not dominant behavior.
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and that was it... after a month or so she texted me to say hi, this was an opener for me to start slowly getting in touch with her again and not making the same mistakes.
The apology didn't help, lol. But, the time away did.