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Hi guys,
Haven't posted a thread in a while since living a quite stable life but do need some opinions on this. Been dating this girl for 3 months and decided to go exclusive as i did not see any red flags and we had fun. Up until this day everything is good, we match. (know each other for 4 months now)
Now in 4 weeks il be moving out to my own place and she will be moving to her old city with her parents also in 4 weeks... she lives 30 minutes from me now and then it will be 65 minutes so i will be seeing her a lot less when she has moved. She is planning to go to school again in the new city, she is just 20 and i am 25. I got my shit together, run some business for couple of years and am fairly successful, she couldn't get a decent job because of not having enough experience so she works at some random big store now.
Now when she goes back to school it will be for 4 years and then she will need to get a job and everything... in those 4 years A LOT of things will happen, she meets new people, will see her old friends/exes again there so even though we match now and everything is good i find it hard to invest/believe in a future with her because she is so young and still needs to get her shit together... aka not being ready for long term.... while i am pretty much settled in life, ready for the next step...
Reading this back you could say we are not on the same line (her starting, me already finished)... so what do you think will be the outcome of this? I like to take risks so i just go with the flow and see what happens but i am curious how you guys look at this and if you have any advice... Thanks.
Nothing in life is ever guaranteed with exception of death. Go with the flow, enjoy the time you have together, and see where life takes you. Why create worry and head down a path of resistance to something so new with so many wide-open possibilities.