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I suffer from scarcity mindset. NEVER picked up a girl on the street, mall, grocery store, etc.
I never go out to bars or clubs or anything. I don't have any friends either.
I only meet women through acquaintances and rarely at work. On average I meet a woman once a year!
So tonight after work I went to the mall for the first time ever (for a purpose other than shopping)
I saw a lot of girls. Some looked at me others didn't. I was so fucking awkward and uncofident that I looked away from the few that looked at me.
I'm so unconfident around woman that are total strangers.
The only "approach" I made was going to an employee at a phone store and asking her where I could get my phone screen fixed.
Her: bla blah
Me: Are you French?
Her: What?
Me: Are you French? You sound like you're French.
Her: no, I'm from spain. Anyway you go that way there's a store bla blah...
Me: Spain! Can you give me the directions in Spanish?
Her: no thank you.
Me: ok. Thank you.
And she wasn't even hot! Maybe a 6 or below!
Anyway I'm really willing to help myself. I'm tired of being the shy unconfident guy that I am.
I'm 6'1" 190 lbs kind of fit and average looking.
Please tell me how I could have handled tonight and what I will need to do in the future.
Any advice is highly appreciated.
Develop your inner smartass. Develop wit and humor.
Her: bla blah
You: Do you work here?
Her: Yes of course.
You: Oh? I thought you were hitting on me, it's been non stop today.
Her: No I'm trying to help you.
You: Good I really don't need another stalker......