Eddie Fews wrote:
Talk first man..
Show you can maintain a conversation; don't jump straight into forcing her to action. Vibe a little bit first. Its the equivalent of a girl saying "You're cute" at a bar and you saying " So you wanna blow me in the bathroom?" maybe she does; but you wanna vibe a bit first.
So, we have been talking online for a few days now. The date, so far, in scheduled for friday...
I try to be playful but this girl seems really serious. Every time I try something even distantly playful/flirty/sexual she backs off and then reinitiates later.
For example, our latest convo:
We were talking about skiing.
Me: you the sporty type?
She: Not really
I do like walking and have a step at home
Me; A step haha, great. Including a DVD?
She: Nono, watch out you
It's with resistance, so I get stronger
Me: I see, good for those bottoms right
Then, no answer...
I'm kinda bored with our conversations in general, but since she is pretty hot I do want to see what happens on a real date...
What is the advice here?
Should I try to minimize the teasing stuff and just keep the attention until the date? Trying to keep the convo her way?
Should I again wait for her to initiate and try building it more slowly?