What the hell does it mean to be CONFIDENT ?



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 10:47 pm 
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I know understand it in theory that someone needs to believe in themselves.............. Allright FINE!

How does it translate in bars, clubs, social settings etc.......... How to demonstrate confidence ?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 12:31 am 
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It is kind of a vague concept. Maybe a good way to phrase it is that whatever you do, you do it righteously. You believe you are doing the right thing.

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Here are some of the nonverbal basics:

1. If you're stooping and are always looking down at the floor, that shows you don't have confidence. Stomach in. Chest out. And when your arms and legs occupy as much space as possible that will manifest as confidence.

2. If you stay at the sidelines holding a beer bottle/can by your belly, that shows you're not confident versus occupying the center (the dancefloor) and dancing with the hottest girls.

3. If you hesitate to approach a hot girl, that will be conveyed as a lack of self confidence. Meanwhile, when you go for what you want without any apologies, that will show as confidence.

Poetic (Vic) has covered the nonverbals really well in his body language articles at the Body Language, Voice Tonality and Dress Section of this forum. Vic also has Youtube videos on the same topic.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 9:16 pm 
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DJ_Z wrote:
It is kind of a vague concept. Maybe a good way to phrase it is that whatever you do, you do it righteously. You believe you are doing the right thing.




Best explanation I have never given.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 12, 2017 9:20 am 
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charlespmyers wrote:
I know understand it in theory that someone needs to believe in themselves.............. Allright FINE!

How does it translate in bars, clubs, social settings etc.......... How to demonstrate confidence ?


It means that you have a sense of direction and you are certain of it, whether it's with some girl or your mission in life, you know who you are and where you're going.


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