14/11 -- Saturday
I know I had that coffee date with the random girl from the car; but It never lead anywhere. I wasn't really attracted to her personality.
I know if I held out and tolerated and didn't try to pull her too early I may have been able to get a second date when she had more time and go for the pull; but ultimately it probably wouldn't even be worth it
Actually on second thoughts; I might try getting myself "talking about sex" earlier on and I might be able to see a sexy side in the woman I am with... Anyway, maybe I'll text her and see if she is kinky hehe.
15/11 - Sunday
I FINALLY MET UP WITH SOME DUDES WHO DO DAY GAME
Approached a few sets; wasn't super focused. Got a number from a girl with a bf and set up a date but she bailed.
16/11 -- Monday
Pretty sure nothing
17/11 -- Tuesday
Did an hour of wandering to meet girls; no success. Made like 6 sets and was blown all out. I should've gone out a few hours earlier (not 6.40pm, more like 4) esp when the weather was better. For fucks sake when will I pick good times for day game? ha
Danced with quite a few new girls. Asked one out and we set up a time.
(Texted her on Wednesday 18. She said she was working til 8pm? I said how about 830 or 9pm? No reply. Unfortunately she did text me weirdly phrased and I couldn't fully understand if she had a gig or was having a gig at 8pm, so I may have suggested an impossible tie. Anyway... fuck it)
18/11 -- Wednesday
Went to a free dance class, then I trained some parkour in the street. No real approaches. Met a girl at the dance class.
19/11 -- Thursday
Asked girl from dance class out when I saw her today. She said maybe.
Made like 6-7 approaches. One Supermarket MILF approach instantly rejecting me for my age. Finally met a girl in the park and we talked for a few minutes before I brought her out for tea. I then escalated the vibe, had my hand on her thigh and went for the mutual caress. She did it but then moved away quickly and continued talking.
We talked about interests and I told her i like to dance. A minute later i invited her to the other room to see something cool and kept it a surprise; then I started to dance with her. We were getting closer and more intimate; but like a horny bitch; I shot for the kiss a little too early. I then went for it again 5-10 minutes later and stole it. GIVE not TAKE ! Scoreboard : -1
The vibe was getting fun and I just wasn't able to maintain that sexual vibe while making things interesting. Sure we'd danced for like 10-15 minutes but to bring her back down into conversation I felt now was a little unfeasible. So we talked for another 5-10 and I invited her over to mine to dance. At that moment I was thinking "fuck I shouldn't have kissed her. It may have bumped my chances for a pull"
So I suggested we go down a quieter side street and practice with the music on my phone. We ended up coming across 2 other couples dancing (WTF?) but made our own spot. Throughout the whole time I just felt the tension fading. She had her lips centimeters away from mine but it never happened.
Later we joined them. We'd been there for probably an hour on the side street. We parted ways and I tried to kiss her but got the cheek. I made her evening "magical", but I felt like I could've made it more magical
TAKEAWAY points : don't take, GIVE. The kiss, even if feasible; is not necessary, not until she's fully turned on anyway. Don't kill the vibe
I started to walk home and noticed a babe. She was catching the bus. I found my card and hopped on the bus. I scanned it but it was out of money (I specifically brought it along in case I need to hop on a bus stop to follow a babe a stop or two LOL), so I told the bus driver not to worry. He insisted I come on; so I went on for free. I sat near her and said hi; then it turns out it was one of those girls who had rejected me (probably multiple times) at university. I felt awkward and wanted to get off and just keep going home. But I had passed a stop or two in the other direction; and I was nearer to the social dancing.
So the way life draws me in; I pulled myself to the dance floor and made some social dances; practiced the things I had learnt last night. Asked that girl out.
I then made my way to the train station; spitting game as I strolled.
I was walking down the carts and noticed a girl so instantly hopped in that carriage. I talked to her but her English lacked. We spoke a little Spanish and I asked her out for coffee. She said no since she doesn't know her time schedules and is probably busy. I left her my contact details wishing I had actually gotten hers and hit her up periodically.
Got off the train and noticed some dude leaving too. I then approached him (and in my head talking to random dudes to share a laugh or befriend them is called "picking up dudes" ... You know you're deep into this game thing at this stage) and exchanged a short convo; I didn't learn much about him but he seemed young and lives down the road, so I exchanged numbers and might stop at his place (number 3 house) some time.