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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 1:34 pm 
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Hi! newbie here!

I am looking for some feedback how to improve my bar game.

Let me start by a short overview by myself. Im 26, spending most of my time slouched by the computer between the four walls of my room getting nagged by my mother. Not many social interactions. So I said to myself FUCK IT! lets go put myself out there, meet someone new...lets go to the bar!

Soooo here we go. pumping myself before the entrance for a bit. Get rid of the last resistance in myself surrender and just walk in. Walking past some tables straight for the bar like a boss...order a drink....then kinda look around...ok at this point I´m pretty at ease with myself with the drink in my hand. I have made it! Who out of my friends would have a balls to walk into a bar just by themselves! Now i sit at the bar like a boob playing with my cellphone and have no FUCKING CLUE what do do next...sooo how do i go from there to socialise?
There is one guy alone drinking beer checking his phone giving no fuck to me. Should I say hello? (no gay btw). One girl sitting at the corner at the bar. I say naaah she is too far away. I am too cool to walk all that way...what would I even say? I would not want to bother her...Then there are some interactions going on at the tables. NO FUCKING WAY I could interrupt people the tables! So what would you do??? give me some ideas please! I am lost!


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jackop the shit wrote:
Hi! newbie here!

I am looking for some feedback how to improve my bar game.

Let me start by a short overview by myself. Im 26, spending most of my time slouched by the computer between the four walls of my room getting nagged by my mother. Not many social interactions. So I said to myself FUCK IT! lets go put myself out there, meet someone new...lets go to the bar!

Soooo here we go. pumping myself before the entrance for a bit. Get rid of the last resistance in myself surrender and just walk in. Walking past some tables straight for the bar like a boss...order a drink....then kinda look around...ok at this point I´m pretty at ease with myself with the drink in my hand. I have made it! Who out of my friends would have a balls to walk into a bar just by themselves! Now i sit at the bar like a boob playing with my cellphone and have no FUCKING CLUE what do do next...sooo how do i go from there to socialise?
There is one guy alone drinking beer checking his phone giving no fuck to me. Should I say hello? (no gay btw). One girl sitting at the corner at the bar. I say naaah she is too far away. I am too cool to walk all that way...what would I even say? I would not want to bother her...Then there are some interactions going on at the tables. NO FUCKING WAY I could interrupt people the tables! So what would you do??? give me some ideas please! I am lost!

Go to the guy and say "help me get one of these bitches" and go to one girl and start an interaction.
I'm shit at it too, but I guess this is the right way.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 4:02 pm 
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Make casual convo with anyone sitting next to you
Let's say you're sitting at the bar and there's a sports game or fight on that night. Open a guy with a comment about that. If he's into it or can relate, you guys start conversing. Girls will see you guys being social and then they will position themaelves closer to yall, hoping that you will open and talk to them too
This is one you say to your new wing man, "hey look at those hotties, lets go see what they're about"
Or hey im going to grab those cuties and bring them over to our table
Could also use an opinion opener to engage the girls into the convo.


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