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Lol, im going there to destroy some ass at the end...i dont know, i guess youre right, but i was doing all this confidently zero fucks given but just didnt get shit
That "zero fucks given" mindset is probably the best mindset that you need to have for nightclub game. In that case..all you may be missing is a little bit of empathy with the girls that you approach. Give girls a little bit of breathing room when you interact with them. Don't just be ON! ON! ON! ON! with them all of the time. Take a step back at times. Be more patient in your sets.
I was at a bar downtown last night, talking to a 2-Set. One dude came up in the set and hollered at the hottest girl of the 2. I honestly didn't really care that he AMOGed me. And it turns out that he was actually a cool dude. He did pretty well with the girl. The rapport between him and her seemed to be going well, until he starting shouting and shit like that. This dude was loud and belligerent. Although he embodied the typical douchebag stereotype (that alot of girls do like and find attractive, ie "THE BAD BOY")..the girl eventually moved away from him and sat somewhere else. I actually told him afterwards that he probably scared the girl off because he was too aggressive. So all he needed to do was tone it down a couple of notches, and he probably would've got her.
-G