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PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2016 8:38 am 
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If you follow this flowchart, you'll never have a problem meeting women.

I also included common mistakes I witness and make from time to time in myself and others. It is very important to correct and learn from your mistakes, all of the time, and you can get rusty, sometimes, if it has been that long. Just be positive and you will catch on quick.

1. Introduction

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0. Opener - Deadpan-Style + usually a Jestful Cold-Read on Her [no longer than a sentence or two or it can get goofy]
1.Bridge Commonality [no longer a "stranger"]
2. DHV [could be sub-counscious or conscious]
3. Hold Frame/Handle "Sexual-Tension" Properly [A DHV, too]

2. Lock-In + Story

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1. Stay focused on details of her outfit, etc. . . for a quick cold read to fall back on
2. Build Team-Frame and Find Commonality in Network [school, job, etc.]
3. Lead discussion to a close

Be sure to:

- screen her; avoid interview mode
-be upfront; not goofy
-show wit; but do not over-do idioms
-be flirtatious; put yourself on the line
-have fun; but not too much fun

3. Close:

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A. Number
. . . then Call for Day 2. Nothing over the top, as a date or;
B. Bounce to an Insta-Date; can be "romantic" and "adventurous"
C. Bounce to Her Place

I usually wing it in terms of content during discussions.

Nothing wrong with routines, though, most especially for those who need the courage to practice.

- focus on her
- don't spend a lot of money
- keep logistics of how the day/night will flow in mind

You want her to tell her friends "One thing led to another and. . . "

Cheers,

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 01, 2016 7:25 pm 
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A fan of this. I'd honestly swap out number and day 2 for instadate. It is a little more intimidating to new guys buy genuinely far better.

And for guys reading this: practice one step at a time. Don't start thinking your first step is taking a girl home.

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Da wrote:
You want her to tell her friends "One thing led to another and. . . "
And I'm a fan of this specific statement.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 03, 2016 9:37 pm 
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Thanks for the kind words, I tried to break it down and keep it pragmatic and as simple as possible.

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Simple method for the intermediate and seasoned guys. I like it.

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Part 2: Learning Essential Skills: #1 is Listening

I may have under-emphasized how important listening skills are. Well, if you want to get cool woman who like cool guys, of course. In this post I'll try to give you something you can go do tonight and practice. To start, when in conversation, or even listening, notice how everybody seems to be talking about something else. It's like a mass of conversation tangents waiting to happen. People want to feel validated, when you get to know them. People in general also drop cues all the time of what they want to discuss, and it takes focus to pick up on them, if you aren't very emotionally intelligent (something one can work one). Getting them to talk and escalating is the formula for a good conversation with a woman. Let her talk around 70% of the time. , , and you want to guide the conversation smoothly to your close.

1. Sweep useless friend-zone cementing conversation threads and take "quiet leadership" in courting the chick.
2. Wait two seconds after someone is speaking to make sure they are done speaking [gold, they love it].
3. Talk about topics in general to see what gets her going, and get her to talk about it more and expand.
4. Listen, and look 70% of the time at her when she's talking (I think it's a good number).
5. If she feels like "she's talking too much," that's a good thing.

Everything should lead to the close of course, nothing changes.

TLDR; Talk less, let her talk more. It can't go wrong.

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Da wrote:
1. Sweep useless friend-zone cementing conversation threads and take "quiet leadership" in courting the chick.
2. Wait two seconds after someone is speaking to make sure they are done speaking [gold, they love it].
3. Talk about topics in general to see what gets her going, and get her to talk about it more and expand.
4. Listen, and look 70% of the time at her when she's talking (I think it's a good number).
5. If she feels like "she's talking too much," that's a good thing.

Everything should lead to the close of course, nothing changes.

TLDR; Talk less, let her talk more. It can't go wrong.


What would the friend-zone cementing conversation threads, do you have any examples?


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Curtis72 wrote:
Da wrote:
1. Sweep useless friend-zone cementing conversation threads and take "quiet leadership" in courting the chick.
2. Wait two seconds after someone is speaking to make sure they are done speaking [gold, they love it].
3. Talk about topics in general to see what gets her going, and get her to talk about it more and expand.
4. Listen, and look 70% of the time at her when she's talking (I think it's a good number).
5. If she feels like "she's talking too much," that's a good thing.

Everything should lead to the close of course, nothing changes.

TLDR; Talk less, let her talk more. It can't go wrong.


What would the friend-zone cementing conversation threads, do you have any examples?



Like talking about other dudes, like talking about her dogs, her girlfriends, etc etc. Any thread that does not get you two closer romantically/sexually is usually a friendly thread.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 06, 2017 6:27 am 
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Curtis72 wrote:
Da wrote:
1. Sweep useless friend-zone cementing conversation threads and take "quiet leadership" in courting the chick.
2. Wait two seconds after someone is speaking to make sure they are done speaking [gold, they love it].
3. Talk about topics in general to see what gets her going, and get her to talk about it more and expand.
4. Listen, and look 70% of the time at her when she's talking (I think it's a good number).
5. If she feels like "she's talking too much," that's a good thing.

Everything should lead to the close of course, nothing changes.

TLDR; Talk less, let her talk more. It can't go wrong.


What would the friend-zone cementing conversation threads, do you have any examples?


Thanks for writing.

What Mr. Assertive wrote ^ is pretty much the idea.

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