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 Post subject: HB10 Model Girlfriend
PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2016 3:06 pm 
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Hey guys, need some advice. Living in NYC , Dating an HB9 / perfect 10. She is a signed model and I gotta admit I get insecure at times knowing every guy in the world is trying to f*** her all the time, even though she seems oblivious to the fact. Despite my insecureness, she's been pretty honest and hasn't given me a good reason not to trust her. So last night she went to the clubbing with her "model friends" who I haven't meet. At 3 AM she sent me a long text to tell me she and her friend were tipsy and she was hanging out at a girlfriends house and don't be upset if she falls asleep, that i'd see her in the morning.

Should I be upset , anxious or am I being an insecure douche.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2016 3:15 pm 
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All of them.

Anything could have happened. You'll just have to accept that. If your posting here your definitely beyond the point of not trusting her. The only thing we are going to tell you is that there are guys in that club that wouldn't give a shit if she said she had a boyfriend, if she did. Does she seem like the trustworthy type? Is there tension in the relationship? Have you been taking her out? If not has she been acting shitty lately?


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2016 3:23 pm 
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no the relationship is good. She hasn't given me too much reason to distrust her but her job does have her in contact with lots of guys for business reasons and networking within the industry. My worry is the blurring of that line.


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 18, 2016 9:42 am 
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The only reason you'd feel insecure or anxious is if you don't think you could find a better or just as good girl if things go bad.

That puts you in a place you don't want to be in.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 18, 2016 12:14 pm 
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Tough spot.

If you feel you are that below her league, find a girl within your own league.

Because being this insecure, might carry throughout your entire relationship, she'll sniff this out and might play the upper hand.

While I know men are very big into looks and are generally visual creatures, trust me, even the most beautiful women are insecure. Whether it's about getting old or not being smart enough, they are insecure.

And I'll tell you this. You take a very gorgeous girl, wipe off her makeup, she goes down by at least 1-2 points.

When it comes to natural beauty, men are the winning sex. A woman out of the shower- not that great looking. A good looking guy out of the shower- even hotter.


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^ Not all women are this manipulative "to play hands." A healthy adult in a relationship wants balance.

You do have reasons to question your situation. You haven't met the friends because you don't want to put yourself on the line and go out, well guess what, who cares if you aren't a model. Get a decent haircut and go workout and keep your girlfriend company while she is out. . . or some other man will. I've learned the hard way on my way up. That's just how it is, even if she isn't spreading her legs, she's out talking to men, it's normal for women to test the waters here and there. . . but what you have here instead is a situation where she can't count on you when she's out. So accept that guys are buying her champagne and as a model she will always be exposed to situations where men want her. Although, weren't you one of these guys? Cut them slack. . . you can even take looks as a compliment. I always do!

So this is what I suggest as I hope you know what's going on now: Accept even if she's faithful - she is out flirting around and figure out whether you're OK with it or not, and where you draw the line. Unfortunately, you already have bad feelings. At some point, you may interfere with her night life that you are not a part of at the moment. She won't be happy. Either join the party or leave, because it's not a good spot to be in. She doesn't actually like that you're a homebody. Again, I've been in a similar spot, over a year ago, and made my choice very quickly when confronted with what seemed like a horrible situation at the time.

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And last time I checked, The Game was all about manipulation and I guarantee you most men out there looking to get laid as often as possible aren't into genuine feelings as much as they are into playing the right cards to get the girls in bed.

End of story.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2016 3:28 pm 
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You're only dating her. You're not in relationship.

Pro tip: Just say you wish her great time. And that's it. Find other girls to date and go out.

If she cheats on you and if you listen to my advice at least you'll pour tears while sleeping with other girls. If you don't, then you'll post another thread here on this forum asking what went wrong while masturbating to porn.

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The only reason you'd feel insecure or anxious is if you don't think you could find a better or just as good girl if things go bad.

That puts you in a place you don't want to be in.


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Hey guys, need some advice. Living in NYC , Dating an HB9 / perfect 10. She is a signed model and I gotta admit I get insecure at times knowing every guy in the world is trying to f*** her all the time, even though she seems oblivious to the fact. Despite my insecureness, she's been pretty honest and hasn't given me a good reason not to trust her. So last night she went to the clubbing with her "model friends" who I haven't meet. At 3 AM she sent me a long text to tell me she and her friend were tipsy and she was hanging out at a girlfriends house and don't be upset if she falls asleep, that i'd see her in the morning.

Should I be upset , anxious or am I being an insecure douche.
Stop putting her on a pedestal, focusing on what she may or may not be doing and increasing the inequity (in your mind) in your relationship w this person.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2016 3:41 pm 
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You guys give great advice, I really appreciate it. Maybe I should add something to the mix because I feel like I have not given enough detail about the situation. First off we live together and have been with each other for 7 months. She does not go out very often and is not a party girl. But when she does go out ? I don't get an invite. It's always a "model event" or a "girls night out", or "for business". When I call her on this, she tells me it's business related or about making connections for work. This is what frustrates me the most, it's not that I don't wanna go out with her I WOULD LOVE TO. I have a fun personality and would love to meet her friends. The problem is that she always has an excuse as to why I am not invited. I am by no means ugly, better than average actually. But it almost that she feels embarrassed about me because I'm not tall or a model myself whereas her friends are dating other models. Once early in the relationship she was drunk and slipped that she didn't invite me because, her friends would think that "your not the kind of guy I would date". There is an age difference between us but it's not noticeable if you'd look at us. She is very self absorbed and always focused on her personal brand. Same with her social media, you would never know she had a boyfriend. She is attracted to me, she thinks I'm cute as shit and loves me but it almost feels like I am her "home life" and she separates me from her other "model" world because of the social pressure she feels from that world. So this is what makes the "not coming home" part more difficult to swallow.


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OP you are gonna blow it.

Calm the fuck down. Your fucking a model. Remember. Quit yer crying.

Your like that friend that calls from his Bahama vacation to bitch about the heat.

Want to stop losing sleep over what she's up to in her absence?

Easy. Let HER wonder what the fuck YOU are up to. That's the way it works.

Women need to wonder where they stand with YOU in order for them to feel more attraction for you.

When she's busy, you need to be busy. ...... AND hard to reach.

Every time she leaves you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.

Let her wonder.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2016 7:20 pm 
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Needed that lol.


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Was she suppose to come to your house or something?

So the girl is "drunk" and still remembers to check in with you so that you know what she's up to and where she is and you're still acting out?

You're insecurities may have some merit; young attractive model with whom guys from all walks of life are throwing themselves at her all the time. However, whats going to be is going to be. And stressing yourself out, dealing with the worrying, and the knots in your stomach etc. just isn't worth it. You would be better off walking away just so you can live stress-free than being overly concerned about whats going to happen with the new chick you're dating. You gotta just be you bro. If the chick likes you its because she's latching onto something she admires in you. Recognize and remember what that is. No need to carrying on unnecessary stress just for the sake of pleasing your ego because you're dating a woman you feel like you're not worthy of(i.e. your insecurities) The willingness the let go because you value your happiness will do a lot more for you in the long run than holding on and spiraling emotionally as a result.

If you can snap out of it and get it together by all means enjoy and make the most out of it. But if you find yourself becoming overly stressed, be strong enough to walk, rebuild yourself, and try again with other girl of even greater value when you're emotionally prepared.

We live in NYC.. Im here with you. And if i learned anything while dating here is that there will always be another girl that was hotter than your last. Attractive women from all over the world are flying in and out of the city every single day.

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Every time she leaves you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 03, 2017 8:50 pm 
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98% sure she was about to hop on some cock. She was testing to see if the excuse of 'falling asleep' at her gfs house was enough to dupe you into letting her cuckold you. If you wanted to know where you stand with her and her honesty, you have 2 options, but these 2 options are dependent upon your current state:

1. If you are seeing other women besides her (which you should be) ignore her call at 3am, or disregard completely and don't contact her until she pursues you.

2. If she is your only option (dumbass you) your response to her call shouldve been 'prove it.' If she can't do that via snapchat or whatever or she gives you shit about it, then my assumption is made above is true. At that point, proceed to adhere to the advice mentioned in point 1 and drop her like a bad habit.

If she was into you like she says, she would've invited you to come with her so she could show you off. Instead, she knowingly placed herself in a situation where the likelihood of a short term sexual encounter to occur are significantly high, and the environment gives her adequate plausible deniability to do so. She is probably ovulating as well, thus unconsciously succumbing to her primal instincts to be fucked by the highest value male she can get. Is that you? Or one of those 10/10 models?

Either way, she should now be nothing more than a non committed fuck buddy.


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