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^ Not all women are this manipulative "to play hands." A healthy adult in a relationship wants balance.
You do have reasons to question your situation. You haven't met the friends because you don't want to put yourself on the line and go out, well guess what, who cares if you aren't a model. Get a decent haircut and go workout and keep your girlfriend company while she is out. . . or some other man will. I've learned the hard way on my way up. That's just how it is, even if she isn't spreading her legs, she's out talking to men, it's normal for women to test the waters here and there. . . but what you have here instead is a situation where she can't count on you when she's out. So accept that guys are buying her champagne and as a model she will always be exposed to situations where men want her. Although, weren't you one of these guys? Cut them slack. . . you can even take looks as a compliment. I always do!
So this is what I suggest as I hope you know what's going on now: Accept even if she's faithful - she is out flirting around and figure out whether you're OK with it or not, and where you draw the line. Unfortunately, you already have bad feelings. At some point, you may interfere with her night life that you are not a part of at the moment. She won't be happy. Either join the party or leave, because it's not a good spot to be in. She doesn't actually like that you're a homebody. Again, I've been in a similar spot, over a year ago, and made my choice very quickly when confronted with what seemed like a horrible situation at the time.
* I live in Manhattan. Maybe I met your love interest, before. Kidding. . .
There's a limit to the number of times a partner will jump through hoops for another.
And last time I checked, The Game was all about manipulation and I guarantee you most men out there looking to get laid as often as possible aren't into genuine feelings as much as they are into playing the right cards to get the girls in bed.
End of story.