Are you looking to date and find a gf or a one night stand? 2 separately different approaches in my opinion. Not into the one night stands with random people.
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Me: Yaaay a midwesterner! Where the best and friendliest people come from! Place?
Her: Haha right?! And I thought southern hospitality was a real thing lol yup place (not same state as mine)
but I've lived here in Place for 4 years now
Me: Lying already?! You said you were ready to explore this new place. We aren't new (name) hahaha. I've been here 3 years.
Her: I meant new to Place! I lived up in place and Place up until around last month
Her: Sheesh, so quick to not trust
Me: Just some playful banter. Relax hahaha. So you've only been in place a month then?
Her: Hold on, I can count the exact days so you know I'm not lying...
I neg her a little from the start with the lying already and get playful and then "qualify her" to see if she is someone I would like to meet by bringing up specific topics I am interested in. You can see she begins to get playful.
This particular girl had cowboy boots on in one so next thing I brought up is if she liked country music and talked about how there was a country bar which. She told me country music like dancing and concerts are her happy place. I told her that my happy place is playing soccer. She told me she played club soccer back in the day too. Praise the lord!!
If she didn't play soccer I would have told her something a long the lines of things were looking so promising, I guess I can overlook this flaw. (I'm not putting her on a pedestal. If she wants me she has to work a bit for me....and it's all in playful fun).