To be honest, even after so much approaching im still really unsure just over what exact kind of girl Id even qualify for. I mean sure, ive approached where i thought the girl had chemistry with me but i still screwed it up somewhere along the lines to get flaked on. Like ohh i like athletic types and bla bla, or ohh girls with a sense of humor are just two off the top of my head. And even then i still worry about attracting them in the first place before id even dare to go into the whole "are you an athletic type?" thing.(and yea i know they should be statements but again, no real idea how to turn that into a practical statement." I dont know my mind is fucked about this stuff
Oh well look at you. Finding all the excuses you can not to try.
Is it going to be tough those first few approaches? Yeah.
Are you going to get rejected a few times? Sure.
Is it going to be uncomfortable? Yep.
Those Doctors treating your cancer. Did they get it right the first time? Or did they have to go through a series of trials and tribulations to get there?
What if THEY gave up because they hit an obstacle?
They are fighting a disease effecting millions of people.
You sir are just trying to get over your fear of talking to a mostly harmless girl.