What are some good Tinder openers?



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"So, you're not quite my type."

"My mom has that haircut."

"Hitting up a party later, are you the "fun" type?"

Make the girl qualify herself in the opener.

Women are used to getting these openers:

"Hey Sarah, great photo, you have a nice smile."

"Hey Sarah, cool dog!"

"Hi Sarah, I think you are hot."

etc.

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Arch Stanton wrote:
"So, you're not quite my type."

"My mom has that haircut."

"Hitting up a party later, are you the "fun" type?"

Make the girl qualify herself in the opener.

Women are used to getting these openers:

"Hey Sarah, great photo, you have a nice smile."

"Hey Sarah, cool dog!"

"Hi Sarah, I think you are hot."

etc.


great!

or

match! you must be interested in me sooo much..

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Arch Stanton wrote:
"So, you're not quite my type."

"My mom has that haircut."


I personally like them openers, but I've tried similar openers so many times and they just never went down well. (im in the UK if that matters. South East)
Either an instant 'unmatch' or just a kind of ''yeah, you're a dickhead'' type reply. I guess it's a good way of screening out girls with zero sense of humour, but some of my boring friends seem to get dates with very bland/safe tinder convos. Literally 'hey, how's your week going?' type stuff as an opener.

I also have good responses with lines that made me cringe a bit when I wrote them as an experiment, but what makes a guy cringe, maybe a girl finds interesting. Like, every infield I see of RSDTodd, i cringe. All of his ''I had to come and meet you and find out of you're as interesting as you look or as charming as you appear. You looked so fascinating sitting on this bench in your yellow dress bla bla'' type stuff. It makes me literally cringe, but it seems to work for him. So I experimented with ''I get the feeling you're not quite as innocent as you look in your profile pic'' and it pretty much always got a response, and usually a fairly positive one.


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What does a good profile look like?


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Two separate messages..It works everytime. I also have great photos and a creatively written profile.

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Eddie Fews wrote:
"Goddamn you're fine.

I'm Eddie.. What are you up to? "

Two separate messages..It works everytime. I also have great photos and a creatively written profile.


i will try it and i will give you echo

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Eddie Fews wrote:
"Goddamn you're fine.

I'm Eddie.. What are you up to? "

Two separate messages..It works everytime. I also have great photos and a creatively written profile.


What's your photos and profile like?

Do you usually take them out or go straight to the bedroom? How does the conversation usually progress?


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HockeyFan987987 wrote:
Eddie Fews wrote:
"Goddamn you're fine.

I'm Eddie.. What are you up to? "

Two separate messages..It works everytime. I also have great photos and a creatively written profile.


What's your photos and profile like?

Do you usually take them out or go straight to the bedroom? How does the conversation usually progress?


I don't do dates unless I'm 1000% sure she's at least an 8 or better and up to my social, emotional, and physiological standards. And even then I'm pressed to go on a date. I have to really connect with them on FaceTime or on the phone for me to invest that much(for me a least) as opposed to just building that emotionally connection through video chat and inviting them directly to my home.

But once again, I know my value, and they recognize in the conviction of my face expression, the confidence in the tone of my voice, and the audacity i have to say the things that I do that they have much more to gain by coming to see me at my home than if they didn't.

Thats not something you're going to be able to do over night. It took years of approaching, rejections, successes, and walking away to get there. You my friend need to delete tinder and go approach real women in real time for right now.

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How do you build an emotional connection?

Are you really dominant or not at all?


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Eddie Fews wrote:
You my friend need to delete tinder and go approach real women in real time for right now.


Eddie Fews wrote:
You my friend need to delete tinder and go approach real women in real time for right now.


Eddie Fews wrote:
You my friend need to delete tinder and go approach real women in real time for right now.


Ask me another question after you complete 50 approaches.

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Arch Stanton wrote:
"So, you're not quite my type."

"My mom has that haircut."

"Hitting up a party later, are you the "fun" type?"



Horrible openers IMO.

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