No time thinking.
Whats the point of thinking? How much time do you spend thinking before you eat your food? Before you work out? before you make a joke with your best friend? You just take action and go right in.
Evaluating and thinking is not what this is about. Its about getting out there and getting social.
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When you're only approaching a girl because you find her physically attractive your mind will have trouble coming up with anything to say because your motivation to approach had nothing to do with your thoughts, it was pure visually based.
When you actually know what kind of "Attractive" woman you're looking for because you have standards; you'll find it much more easier to engage in conversation, because you won't be boggling your mind with what to say to impress them or contact with them; you'll be approaching and evaluating them based on the list of standards that you require from a woman for you to take interest in them. It become about YOU, what YOU'RE looking for, and if THEY fit into your life. Its no longer about them and you waiting on them to approve of whatever it is you're saying to them. You become self approved, you become the evaluator, the one hosting the interview and not the one seeing if you're going to get hired for the job. Most guys approach woman as if the woman is the boss and they're trying to get hired for a position that there is no space for. When you have requirements beyond the surface you become the boss thats giving them an opportunity to be invited into your world.
So this isn't a technical issue. Its more of a mental thing. You have no idea why you're approaching women other than the fact that you get erect and you think they're attractive. That approach can work and does work here and there, but its hit or miss. You're playing a numbers game. And its their game. You're not there to impress, you're there to inspect. - Eddie Fews
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