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So you're saying that you're perfect and that we don't have anything to say that could better your life.
Not even close to what I'm saying. Not even in the same ballpark. I'm saying that people are too sensitive to people disagreeing. Everyone has views on life but that doesn't mean that they are trying to derail you. If you offer an opinion, some people won't share that same mindset.
You use your example of your friend. He's not trying to take you off of your path. He's fighting to stay on his own path. He wants to be on that path because he explained to you that he is afraid to talk to women, but your response to his fear is that he should talk to women. You put him in a corner and he came out swinging.
There's this guy starboy, who is now starman, that made a post about being a boss. People pointed out flaws in his logic and he came back swinging. He was swinging back by saying that he was in the top 1% because we didn't accept what he was saying. He felt that since we brought him down that he would, in turn, bring us down. He wasn't swinging because he was trying to take us off our path. Just as your friend tried to bring you down because he felt that you were bringing him down when in fact you were just trying to help him. Does that make sense to you?