Quote:
Quote:
You just say whatever's going on in the vicinity, or just gibberish if you prefer...but the vicinity thing is better as no alarm bells will go off. But it matters not what you say but how you say it. If she perceives you to be a man who is viewed favorably by women, she will reply very very favorably even if you say "is the bacon on the left counter or above the trap?" She'll laugh and say, "what???", her eyes fluttering at you................ I say this to illustrate that you need to have a smooth persona that is USED TO talking with and getting with women. Everything flows downhill from that point.
Couldn't agree more. it's not what you say but HOW. I know this forum is more focused on lines than inner game but the best way for me is to go up without having anything in my head what to say. It puts me and my mind on the spot and this in return builds confidence AND gives you freedom to have fun and attract the girls. Being creative on the spot is an opportunity to have a blast. Who cares if you get blown out, your mood will probably go up unless you take yourself too seriously. Just.. take it as a social experiment and try to have fun, don't focus on the specific words.
I find that when I literally just walk up with NOTHING in my mind (which I sometimes do) I often just say 'hey...what's up!''. It seems to be what my brain naturally ALWAYS comes up with when I don't have anything planned and when the situation appears to not give me anything better.
So for me, I think maybe canned/more interesting openers are maybe better