Hey Heath,
welcome to the community. Getting to a point where you are ready to admit that "you are clueless" about
women is actually an awesome point, because from here on you can actually learn what it takes to succeed
in this area.
The biggest thing that is stopping most guys from ever having success with women is their EGO in admitting
to themselves that they are not "the hot shot that every chick wants".
So you're in a great place, as long as you use this momentum to keep going and do something differently.
I don't know what your present resources are at this point, but here is a good place to start:
general-questions/guide-for-guys-just-s ... 99768.html
The most important thing at this point is to understand you'll have to go through certain stages in your
journey, and that you shouldn't skip those stages.
Don't try to do too much too soon. Start with your first challenge and go from there.
Generally, there are 4 stages you'll need to pass:
1) Overcoming your hurdles about approaching women, and learning to start a conversation with women
2) Learning to continue the conversation in a meaningful way, without running out of things to say
3) Making the girl be "into you" as you're talking to her. This is about attraction and learning how to
trigger it with a girl.
4) Taking things to the next level, whether it is getting her number, asking her out, going for the first
kiss or taking things to the bedroom.
The key here is to stay in sequence. Don't try to learn to make women interested in you without first
dealing with your ability to comfortably approach. Don't try to force yourself getting phone numbers before
you learned how to handle a conversation.
You are your own worst enemy, and nobody can stand in the way of your success with women as hard as
you can.
Allow yourself some time, couple of months to get good, and be really patient as the weeks go by. You
may spend a bit more time on your key challenge, which may feel like you're not doing anything at all...but
it has an effect on you.
I can't help you with everything, but maybe I can help you with your
approach anxiety. If you'd like to learn
how to start conversations with women, I invite you to join my free test group in my signature below.
Hope this quick intro helps you on your way. Remember that each and every one of us was at your place
and we all know how it feels to be there. From that place it seems almost impossible to succeed with women
and the whole women thing can seem like you're never going to make it.
But remember this:
It is POSSIBLE. And most importantly, after putting in all the work and going through the
journey myself, I can tell you
it is WORTH it.
Good luck, and welcome again,
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