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PostPosted: Thu Nov 17, 2016 4:25 pm 
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Hi, Names Warren
I have been in the forums before but never put them to much use. But now I am in a dilemma, I lost my girl. I know where I when't wrong but am lost on getting her back. That's the reason I am here. If any one here could point me in the right direction it would be appreciated. Drop me a line if you want the in depth bs. I am in day 2 of 30 day no contact and trying to rearrange my mind once again to the man she fell in love with as well as improve up on myself. I am open to all opinions and suggestions.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 17, 2016 6:44 pm 
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Location: your mind
30 days are not enough to change your mind.. but

1. Don't stay alone, be with your family & friends
2. Watch comedy shows/movies, play games
3. work on your looks & build a charming body
4 Never ever contact her until your mind comes in healthy state
5. start makings plans to make more money or get a job if jobless
6. Build an attractive personality so that girls would want to connect with you
7. Don't fall to ruin for love

and read books, i can recommend you Alabaster girl from Zan Perrion.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 17, 2016 9:17 pm 
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I would agree on the 30 day. Doesn't really make a lot of since but there is a theory of 30 days for ex in question will normally forget the negatives and remember the positives of the relationship. During the 30 days I am to live and grow which that is what I am doing. Need to meet new people and date others to help. I will definitely check the title out and am keeping up with my the family, one thing I did was separate my self from everyone when I was with her.

Thanks for the input


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 17, 2016 10:24 pm 
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Hi, Names Warren
I have been in the forums before but never put them to much use. But now I am in a dilemma, I lost my girl. I know where I when't wrong but am lost on getting her back. That's the reason I am here. If any one here could point me in the right direction it would be appreciated. Drop me a line if you want the in depth bs. I am in day 2 of 30 day no contact and trying to rearrange my mind once again to the man she fell in love with as well as improve up on myself. I am open to all opinions and suggestions.
If you want advice I need a little more information. Like what you did and how things ended. It's good you've decided not to speak with her and know you will physically have to show her things are different.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2016 2:01 am 
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As for what I did. Start with I lost her and some time passed and she wanted me back. Well during that time my mind set had changed, I had changed. I became way overly attached, clingy, self absorbed and talkative. Lost track of us I guess you could say. We had a fight we re-connected and extremely distant. Then she started looking around again, we met on a dating site. She started updating her profile and would ignore my text so I started the last fight and here I am. Single once again, happy but not complete like I was during the relationship. That's the jist of it. Typical cliché reaction.

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Now a previous ex contacted me today. Out of my area now and we ended on good terms but I automatically started playing her like a fiddle. I actually feel guilty about it. Oh well guess I will try the path I once tred before to improve who I am for now.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2016 9:34 am 
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and read books, i can recommend you Alabaster girl from Zan Perrion.
I recommend Models by Mark Manson.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2016 12:29 pm 
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Thanks


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The best way to move on (and possibly get her back later) is to dive into reinventing yourself. You were
in a relationship for a very long time, you probably even forgot who you are.

A man's power comes from his ability to get into the world, approach women and go after things. It's that
excitement of putting yourself out there.

You have that power inside, but you're all rusty and you need to put yourself back on track.

Fuck watching comedy shows or going at this slowly. You will tempted to call her and sob.

Get OUT. Start working on your confidence. Start by getting rejection. Talk to girls, and get rejected
on purpose. You need a new pattern, do something new.

Here are some resources to help you get started:
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And for approach anxiety here:
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Get into some sort of program, something you can follow, something where you'll have a group of guys who are
on the same path.

In essence, re-activate yourself man.

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