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It works for me. Especially during the "final moments" (about to have sex the first time). I'll say, "..you know we're not supposed to be doing this"...as I'm pulling her panties off. It does three things: 1. It makes you look like a rule-breaker (you're doing something you're not supposed to be doing). 2. It makes it seem taboo to her (which makes it hotter for her). And 3. It gives her an excuse later...."...well, we weren't supposed to be doing it anyway".
Huge difference between being in the moment about to have sex as opposed to trying to get a girl to go out with you. Not that I'm saying to give her an out when you're in the process of pulling her panties down is a good idea...but during escalation it usually is a turn on.