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Yeah I can be a bit controlling. But at least I can admit it. I'm working on it tho honestly.
I guess it's just weird to see your conservative type gf be friendly for the first time, ya know? And the pua community doesn't help because even tho I agree she was being friendly they might say it's IOIs. How can you tell the difference? Obviously no other guy wants his girl to be giving IOIs, but I honestly think pua saying everything a girl practically does is a IOI or IOD may be playing a part in me feeling insecure.
1. Your girl is going to be interested in other people. Her emotions don't automatically lock off when she's in a relationship. The point is what she DOES with that interest.
2. If all your girl did was sound excited to see some friends, then you're definitely taking it too far.