Alot of u guys are not believe this, but I am no longer a virgin since about 3 nights ago. Here is my lay report:
I did it with an asian chick from China (she moved to U.S. about a few years ago) who I actually met from OKC.
(I know it’s not the way u guys wanted to me to meet a girl or girls, but it worked). Anyways, we first went to a bar within my city. As soon as I first met her in person I had put on a very enthusiastic and positive greeting towards her (without being over the top). She was not overweight or underweight at all. I would say that looked to be about a 6 maybe 7. She wore a red cheongsam (a body-hugging one-piece Chinese dress for women), with a stylish pair of black high heels. She had shoulder length hair one thin length of braided hair on each side of her head. Her skin was not totally clear, but it was pretty good. At first she seemed like the relatively typical shy/introverted asian type during our date at the bar, though was still very playful with me as I was with her. So, after being at the bar for an hour and half she asked me if I wanted to come talk a walk with me. So I said “okay, sure”
Oh yeah, sometime before we walked I told her that she said sexy exotic skin. Also, sometime before we walked she told me that she has a bf, which I was shocked and somewhat disappointed to hear at first. However, when she asked what I was looking for I told her that “I am to mainly date and I am not in a rush to be in a serious relationship. I mean, if that does happen, then it happens. But if it doesn’t then that’s fine too.” She looked and sounded totally accepting of my objectives. Then, when I asked her “what about u?” She said with a smile that she loves her bf, but that she’s looking for something more or something else.
So, during the walk I eventually told her that her braided hair was sexy which she seemed like she really appreciated that compliment I made. I then touched her arms and shoulders while I would either be making a big point about something or was joking about something. I eventually grabbed her hand as soon as we crossed the street. From there, I held her hand Intermittently (not constantly to make it seem like I wasn’t being needy). Then, I decided to take her to the middle of park where none was around (but the park was actually across from buildings in all four directions. I took her to a bench for us to sit next to each other side by side. When there was a moment of silence I finally looked at her face for a few sec. As this happened, I kept a subtle flirtatious smile on my face while she would eventually break into a nervous smile. So, I decided to take a risk by bringing my head right next to her head.
[10/4/15, 2:36:17 AM] Ross Goldberg: Luckily, she complied with this by bringing her head forward so that we would be touching each other’s foreheads with our eyes close. I knew right away that this meant that she was definitely in a sexual trance so I of course went in for the kiss. She complied to it and right away we madeout
[10/4/15, 2:37:30 AM] Ross Goldberg: after about several second of making out, I put her hand onto my crotch while we continue making out. She then closed her grip on my cock. So, I whispered into her ear “u are making me hard.” She whispered back “good.” Now here comes the crazy part……
She unbuttoned my pants. So I actually pulled my cock out. As u may expect, I felt both nervous and excited about this. That’s when she sucked my hard dick…..out in public. We both checked that no one was around to see this (at least we thought that nobody was around, especially during 10 p.m. on a Thursday night). However, I couldn’t believe that this was actually happening to me. This was fucking crazy, but fucking hot too! During that moment I couldn’t believe that this was how I was how I was gonna begin to lose my virginity. She even deep throated me there. I am not fucking kidding! I never felt anything like this before in my entire life. After a couple minutes of her doing that to me, I had her stopped and then she whispered to me with a smile “u are crazy…”
That’s when I realized that she was right. lol. So, I put my dick back in my pants and said with a smile “yeah, let’s go to my car, I have a condom" So said “okay” and followed me. As we walked to my car I asked if she had any STDs or things that I need to know. I know that I momentarily killed the sexual vibe between by asking that, but I had to make sure. U know? Better safe, then sorry. So, she said “no. I don’t believe so. I got tested about 6 months ago and they said that I was clean.” I then said “alright. cool. What about your bf, does he have any?” She said that she sincerely doubted it. because she said that he was tested clean too at about the same she was. So, I was like “okay. cool.” Of course I told that I was recently tested by my doctor, and that my results show that I am very healthy (which I have always been, thanks to always having a very good diet and exercise regimen throughout virtually my entire life). Then, I asked “do u watch porn?" She was cool about it. Btw, I forgot to tell u that she’s an aspiring screenplay writer, film director, and producer. So, she was like “nah….I don’t watch it anymore. What about u?” I answered honestly that I do of course and that practically every guy in the world does and so does the majority of women around the world.
Okay so onto the sex scene....
I had us do it in my car in the parking lot structure where there weren’t many cars parked in there beside mine. Also, there was virtually no people on any level of the parking structure except for two workers at the parking toll station and about one person on each level of the structure, except for the very top level. So, I decided to ride with her to the very top where there was absolutely noone around and only about 2-3 cars including mine were there. Then I made sure that all of my car doors and window were shut tight, got my condom out and then went from there. I felt great that I really got my dick wet. However, I was sadly surprised that it didn’t feel as good as I expected it to be. Unfortunately, I couldn’t keep my dick constantly hard. I would go soft, then hard, then soft, then hard, even when we tried a bunched of different positions. She asked if I wanted to cum in her mouth, which I agreed to, but I couldn’t even cum at all during the whole sex.
probably has to do with being both nervous over my first time and having watched too much porn throughout my entire life. The girl was very understanding. She even said during the middle of sex that it’s okay and that we could try again next time. However, I kept trying for a bit longer until I decided to just call it a night and tell her the truth about me….I told her that this was my first time and even though she was of course shocked to hear this, as expected, she actually seemed very understanding about it. She said that it’s okay and that it’s not such a big deal, but still couldn’t believe that this was my first time. Also, I asked if her bf knew anything about what you are doing. She said that he doesn’t. So I was like “ohh….I see. Well, tell me what’s been going on with u two?” She explained to me that even though she still loves him (at least to some extent) she is still upset about he has treated her