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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 5:18 pm 
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I was dating this co-worker and I got suspicious she was hooking up with another former co-worker. Me and her went on and off for awhile, but I just found out that happened to be in the same town when she was on vacation at the same time. I am extremely hurt, I confronted her in the past about it and she denied as did he. But I can't imagine they were vacationing in the same place together at the same time by accident. I don't know what to do.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 5:21 pm 
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Not sure I understand...

Why is she currently your ex? Anything related? How long were you together for?

If she is your ex, what does it matter? The situation doesn't change unless your co-worker is a good friend of yours?

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 6:38 pm 
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I got suspicious before, but me and her have been going off and on, while I think they were hooking up at the same time we were seeing each other. And I am friend with him, but I wouldn't say close friends or anything like that.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 7:50 pm 
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On and off for like 9-10 months.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 8:42 pm 
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Get a new one, there is plenty.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 9:21 pm 
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I've been dating other girls since our first breakup since we no longer have been exclusive. I just broke things off with someone I have been seeing for two months and I hooked up with someone else Saturday night.

Still can't get her off my mind. And it has been turning me on. I know cuckolding is a real thing but I don't know if I should feel turned on by that.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 9:30 pm 
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This is you feeling that you've been wronged. A lot of time this negative emotion is because you cannot communicate how she's made you feel. As long as you dwell on that, you won't get over it and won't be able to move forward.

Forgive her but just don't get with her again. It'll take all the weight off of your shoulders.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 9:37 pm 
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There are so many girls, be cool, everything else doesnt matter...

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2016 10:01 pm 
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Thanks for the advice guys, you are always helpful.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2016 12:46 am 
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I've been dating other girls since our first breakup since we no longer have been exclusive. I just broke things off with someone I have been seeing for two months and I hooked up with someone else Saturday night.
Double standards? You can hook up with girls but she can not do the same?
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Still can't get her off my mind. And it has been turning me on. I know cuckolding is a real thing but I don't know if I should feel turned on by that.

It's only a problem because you have oneitus. You like her more than she likes you.

Do yourself a favor and find someone compatible. There are only a few billion girls on the planet...

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2016 5:44 pm 
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Why are you confronting a single woman about doing something with her body and personal life that has nothing to do with you? This is your ex, not your wife or girlfriend.

You have to get over it man.

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