Right, here's a nice snippet right out of my doodle diary...this one happened in Sandton city a while ago....
A nice example from my doodle diary in which
I use for my motivation to approach girls (and just generally write down
random stuff inside), this one should give you an idea.
If you still have some anxiety of what do or say to a girl before making
an approach here's motivation.
Keep in mind I had no intention of approaching just minutes before an
important event but I had to sneak it in.
I was doing a fashion photography event in an upmarket mall a few weeks ago
and I had my camera around my neck at the time (Nikon haha) and I
was on my way to the event when I passed this girl promoter wearing
an awesome dress. Needless to say I ended up talking to her and
taking her picture but the point is that this is one key element to
use and look out for when approaching women: Take notice of
what their wearing. They might get compliments like this
on occasion you may never know, so don't be suprised
if they ask you to validate WHY you like their outfit.
By the way, if anyone knew about Fashion Circus at
Sandton...this was that event.
Here was the open:
Me: Hey, I'm sorry to bother you and I can only stay a minute
because I need to get going, but I just wanted to say I really
like your dress You look fantastic!
(Add a time constraint, very important)
Girl: Oh my god really? Thank you!
Me: No problem, you look awesome dude! How come
you weren't in the fashion show??
Girl: I dunno ... I wasn't invited haha?
Me: That's a shame haha. I'm in
photography college right and we're currently
studying fashion photography and I recently had
a fashion shoot...and I cant get it out of my head!
Girl: Oh wow that's so cool, thank you so much
Me: Hey, before I go can I take your picture?
Girl: Really? Uhm, wow I dunno how to pose for this !
Me: It's cool, you'll look great eitherway. (another compliment)
Me: (Above photo)
Girl: Let me see! Let me see!!
(showed girl the photo, she loved it haha)
Me: Told you so Listen I really gotta go but it was
awesome meeting you though!
Girl: Cool thank you
And I left because I was genuinely running late for the event.
Directly after the approach i took out my doodle diary and drew
a rectangle in a blank page with the text you see around in the
photo, I knew that if I printed out the photo and had some easy
access to it I would then in the future be able to re-affirm myself
of just how easy opening can be. After my event I got the photo
developed and now I can refer to it whenever I have some doubt
or not (because I know what it's like to be inside my head...alot.)
So yeah guys that's how a simple direct opener goes down. You can
do it like me and use a pro camera to make it seem more sincere about
going to an event
I even wrote down in my doodle that says "They don't bite! Opening is easy!
Back to basics!" to remind that opening, really is EASY and even if it's not
for a number close and just for fun you can still learn something valuable.
It's all in your head.
I hope this helped in some way, thanks for reading.