Putting girl on a pedestal

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 10:37 am 
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Hey there.
My biggest problem is definitely putting girl on a pedestal.I always do that.I can't dedicate to something.For example,if I go to the gym,I will not doing some exercise.Instead of that,I will be wondering what if she texted me right now,and I'm not text her back at the moment.(this is one of examples,hope you got it.)
I'd like not to do that,but I don't know how.

PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 3:30 pm 
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sir Lancelot wrote:
I'd like not to do that,but I don't know how.

Buy developing more options. Thus not being outcome dependent.

Text messages can wait. The whole concept of a 'message' is that you can reply at YOUR convenience.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 8:00 pm 
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What is she offering you?
What is anyone offering you?

Stop giving a fuck. Personally I just keep in mind that I'm someone special and wonder what they're offering me that's worth it. Granted there are a few here and there that will drive me insane and I have to exert much more focus than normal to get them off my mind. But if you focus regularly on everything else it will eventually get easier with practice.

I feel like the point of a community is to help where/when/however u can.

PostPosted: Wed Jun 29, 2016 1:45 am 
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Keep your phone in your car when you work out or shut it off. Girls don't want guys that are always available like that.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2016 1:58 pm 
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Putting women on a pedestal is not your only challenge. There are deeper things you need to address, that
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2016 7:14 pm 
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Just learn how to control yourself.. your mind wonders to her.. force it elsewhere. you feel an urge to immediately reply even when busy.. remind yourself why you shouldn't and carry on with what you were doing.

having more to do and more options with girls will also help a lot

If I post on your thread I am adding my opinion that I have formulated either from experience or others experiences. It is just that though, an opinion and not a fact.

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