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*Not improving my looks , style , lifestyle
*Instead spam approaches like typical pickup monkey...
I really hope guys will actually read this stuff and get something out of it. Too many lost guys...
Fairly new to this stuff, so you probably know better than me, but when I approach a lot of women on a night I'm more likely to be successful than if I approach fewer. From a stats point of view, the more shots you take the higher chance of success.
If you define getting success by getting numbers , then yes (wether they flake on you or not is an entirely different issue)
Let me give you a hypothetical:
You are playing a strategy video game. let's just say for argument's sake it's pokemon.
You have a very low level pokemon. Do you :
a) Spam battles with the inherent risks of always losing , even though statistically if you spam battles your more likely to succeed for THAT ONE BATTLE.
b) Train your pokemon FIRST so your success level is theoretically HIGHER when you battle.
Are you type A spam monkey that has a small chance of winning the battle and doesn't think of future battles.
Or are you type B that builds himself first and endlessly reaps battle after battle as his "win ratio" (sigh..really hating talking like this but what can you do) , is higher.
If you didn't get the analogy , in short yes.
You will have a higher chance if you spam approach , DEPENDING ON YOUR STARTING POINT!
It took me near 2 years to get that "success" , when i finally lost my virginity. Let me give you some insight into that.
*I looked young as fuck. At 19 i was often told 15.
*I was scrawny as fuck. I was maybe 120 pounds and skinnier than most guys around at 5"11.
*I was broke as fuck and lived with my parents. There were a couple other chances prior to losing my virginity that i couldn't afford the taxi to her place.
*My clothes were shitty as fuck. This was because i had no fashion sense and couldn't afford anything anyways.
*I had no life outside of spam approaching. Literally. No hobbies , nothing.
*I was extremely socially awkward.
This does seem extreme, but i'm being totally honest. It's who i was in the past.
Now , if you were to meet someone like the past me. What would you advise him:
*Spam approach like a pickup monkey idiot?
*Or tell him to work on his looks , style and lifestyle (including money)?
I know what i would.