The distance thing has cone up before, awhile after we first started hanging out I made the huge mistake of asking her if she could see herself being in a relationship with me, she did say yes but then asked if I thought the there would be any problem with the distance. I told her no I didn't think it would be a problem, she agreed as well. I should add to that I have been searching for a home to buy up here, so maybe she's now questioning the distance thing again? And thinking about things long term.
I think I wanted to show her that the distance wouldn't be a problem and made myself more available and invested more of my time with her?
N2thevoid: my reason for thinking I was being needy, I hung out with her Friday night and stayed over at her house. She had to get up early the next morning for work and I didn't get to see her before she left. i sent her the text basically as a reason to connect? Even though we had plans to hang it later in the day.
We ended up hanging out that night, I invited her along to a friends wedding. Things went ok, except her ex bf of 3 years (broke up 7 months ago) flagged her down, they went outside and talked together I ended up running into the two of them with my group of friends I was with. A little while later he tried again to get her to go outside, not sure if she went though? I tried to not let it bother me but I noticed earlier in the week when we were hanging out that he was texting her. Anyway, we ended the night dancing and having a good time. Went back to her place, couldn't f-close cause I didn't have a condom
ended up settling for a bj.
Am I being insecure for worrying about her ex? I haven't mentioned or questioned her about it. Do I bring it up or just continue on knowing we have a long weekend planned together coming up.