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Yeah. Absolutely. Thanks for that. And that is a real shitty shit test. Especially coming home from a fun event.
And it wasn't done playfully? Actually, I guess it doesn't matter. Chicks!!! WTF. And so damn sneaky too. Coming home from a good outing when you are relaxed and feeling successful. Damn.
Good after the fact comeback. Another might be, it is YOUR turn to take me out.
Just read Dilla's post. Good advice. For me, being a playful sort, I would come back with, next time you are getting a good spanking.
I'll use almost any excuse to bring up spanking, LOL. Ahem.
PU makes simple things way too complicated. If a girl is teasing, tease back. If a girl is being rude, address it.
If you read her comment as being rude, how would you react if you had options and weren't just trying to get laid or die? You'd be disappointed in her, and you'd communicate that. You dont need to lecture her.
Heres how I wouldve handled it. If a girl had said this on way home, I'd have a confused look because her comment makes no sense. I'd be turned off as the image of this cool girl changed into a girl who expected me to take her out. She'd sense this or see the change in vibe and want things to go back. She'd ask, did I say something wrong? I'd say tbh your comment kinda turned me off, it sounded really high maintenance and thats not my thing. I wont be mad, sad ...I'd just be turned off. She'd go to saying she was joking or aplogize, I'd tell her its no big deal, but she'd sense she lost points with me. She'd want to make it up and show me she isnt high maintenance and would say next date she'll cook dinner or surprise me with something. I may give her a chance. Its not a freeze out, its not no contact, its communicating that her pussy isnt worth that much to you.
See, if you're just trying to fuck a girl cause she's there and willing to "pass" her shit tests, you'll just lose. Because a guy with options and standards doesn't wonder about what SHE's thinking, he's holding to HIS standards, not hers. Humor is cool, but a more effective way is to have standards and demonstrate that.