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How did you figure it out? I wanna knoow.
Well, what I do is approach with slow movements and confident body language. Before putting my arm around the woman, I now usually position myself a few meters ahead of them. I never approach from behind anymore. Sometimes from the side works, but I will pretend I need to go in their same direction and stop in their path to check my phone. Then I pretend the battery died at that moment. I "suddenly" notice this woman walk by me. Then I approach her asking the time or for directions. I start asking open ended questions from there, and escalate by bringing personal aspects into the conversation.
I still have more fun just putting my arm around a woman and just telling them there is a romantic park I want to take them to. I never ask if they want to go. I just tell them we are going a really cool place, let's go haha. It might sound stupid, but I have full closed and kiss closed two different women in the same night with this super direct and aggressive approach. The key for getting it to work for me is a focused and fierce inner game and confidence that the approach is not at all strange, but natural.