"Nothing can break you, if you are already broken."
Try to understand what is common among all (truly) successful people. I think everyone has done this (consciously or unconsciously). Since our focus is Venusian arts, I'll say guys like SP, RSD, TRPcommunity, life coaches, master PUAs.
Let me use this analogy. Our mind, spirit and body is a huge balloon of mixed emotions connected to some sort of tube. And as life goes, emotions are entering and filling the balloon. But right from the get go, stereotypes and simple human nature filled and programmed you with every single insecurity you have today. Thus creating anger, envy, sadness, stress, anxiety, etc..
Now, of course, it's perfectly natural for you to express your emotions and relieve them, for example punching something for anger, smoking for stress, masturbation for depression and so on. That way balloon loses its air, and so the cycle repeats.
But you just need to pop it.
Once you get to the "breaking point" thats it. Only then will you be able to freely work on inner and outer game (or just called frame and game), but i wont get into that. Because emotions will freely pass through you, through that tube and you will choose what to feel and what not.
So how do you do that? Well, it's really hard. You need to fill yourself with so much pain and negative emotions (since we release positive ones automatically; we love to feel them), and not express them(this is really hard). Fill that fucking balloon so hard and possibly as fast as you can because its very bad holding it in. I don't know, go talk to HB10s and get rejected or something, find your own path. This could very well take 1-5 years.
And try not to confuse "breaking yourself" with "expressing yourself". If you are crying in bed, you are not broken.
When the time comes, you will know.
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