Hey, I will try to make a long story short.
I am 25, used to be misanthropic, so was late to start. Couple of years back I had a surgery which left me with a disability so to speak.

My hiccup which pretty much stops me from even bothering to approach is having a colostomy bag (I figure it's gross for most), which I am going to keep wearing for at least another year. It makes me think that whatever I do I will be unable to f close because of it.
The last couple of months I've been sleeping with 2 girls as my f buddies; however that is not enough - I need progress. The approach I took was to tell them, then pretty much fuck them the next time I saw them.
I don't know how and when to mention it. I have passed quite a few sure lays just because of my self consciousness. I used to live in a dorm, surrounded by horny women yet felt unable to do anything.
When (if at all) do you think I should mention that I'm wearing the colostomy bag?
Do you have any advice as to how to proceed so that I don't waste the time?

Regards.

Wow, you're doing pretty good bro considering. I would feel envious if I was one of these defeatist forum virgins reading this.

If I was you, I wouldn't really mention it till it was too late, I think when you got a girl horny and ready for the D, they will compromise. If you tell them within the 1st 5 mins, you will lose a lot of girls.

There is some exceptions i would mention it, for instance when the girl reveals something really vulnerable about herself and then I would perhaps mention it then.

I got a friend (good looking and tall) with one leg that girls don't even care if he is a fake leg.

Hope this helps, good luck.

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I was too busy with work to reply sooner.
Thank you for your message.
I figure I should work more on my inner game; but should one ever stop?
I will be cutting ties with this city in 4 moths, so I might just as well go out and do shit without repercussions.