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I'm running into a bit of a sticking point with online game/some offline game where all attraction/interest seems to be lost when a girl asks me what I do... I can't afford my own place and go to college full-time without being able to work.
For the most part women are resource extractors, aka gold diggers: AWALT. This forum is replete with responses for when a woman asks you about your job.
Since you're in college, your joblessness should not be an issue since you should be seducing women in college. When I was in college, the standard conversation was "like, totally, what's your major?" not where do you work because college students (especialy in the UC) are normally from VERY affluent backgrounds. It shocked many women that I worked part time while in college.
Having roommates is the norm in college. Having roommates never slowed having women over or going to their place.
Women tend to be pretentious shrews at all HB levels, seeking material advantage in exchange for sex (be it money, job advancement, connections, or in your case help with their classwork). Those are the ones PUA tactics are designed for.
PUAs tend to overlook that for cool, aka thoughtful aka together aka highly evolved women, no tactics are needed at all as they deliver themselves to you because THEY dig YOU for your MERIT. Girls in college will just give you their number or ask you for yours, just like that. You will say what????????
If you are in a top research university like a U of ____, sooner or later you will be two digit and 3 digit upper division courses in small groups in small classrooms with the professor. Charisma: Your game becomes working on YOURSELF such as mastering the material and being cool with everyone in class. That means learning everybody's name in class, greeting everyone by name in class as you walk in, dialoguing with the professor in class about the subject matter, and building on what others say in class, e.g. "Prof. B can you please elaborate on what Carlos and Juen said about the Pareto Model?" I was so fuckin' cool in college, professors, chicks, and dudes loved to talk to me because I loved being in the intellectually stimulating environment with motivated people. I had no money, worked part time, was on the track/cross country team, and rode a chopper IN CAMPUS from class to class. My grades: Dean's list and Honor Roll. Chicks in class would either ask me out, hint at it (hiiii), or try to punk me (let's get together to study).
However, in college from age 18-22, I was too socially inexperienced and suffered from chronic girl friend/oneitis syndrome. If I knew then what I know now...now in my 40s, I wish I could get in a time machine to go back in time... my sex numbers would have exceeded Wilt Chamberlin. There were so many "information monsters" trying to dupe me to help them with their studies back in the 1980s in college; I never fell for it. But in retrospect, I should have said to the "information monsters," "cool Sherry, I'd love to study with you. Let's spend the weekend together, to get through Professor Saxon's brutal assignment."
Enjoy your college years, do NOT LET ANY CHICK TAKE YOU OFF YOUR EDUCATIONAL AND CULTURAL GOALS ON CAMPUS. At the same time, You will NEVER again in your life have such a huge concentration of MOTIVATED pretty GIRLS in your SAME cultural and economic SITUATION, who want to have sex openly. Women do NOT improve with age- they just get fatter and more bitter. Take it from a combat veteran.