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While it's your own fault for not plowing through the LMR, I do see how a few of those examples could have been tough.
I think she's got another fella on the go. Of course that's just a gut feeling, after reading this.
If you're able to go a full week without any contact then she's occupying herself somehow. Might also help explain why she won't go further with you - maybe she's an "ethical cheater" or something.
How much do you know about her?
I would simply not accept a boyfriend frame with her and I'd be backing off, personally. Make her come to you.
Charles,
Thanks for taking the time to read my post and give your advise on the situation. My first thought is that she is having sex with someone else and doesn't wanna be fuckin two dudes at once but I have no evidence to support that.
I know a decent bit about her from our meetups. She is in school for Nursing so her only free days are Thursday and Sunday. That may contribute to the lack of text but women always find a way if they want to. I could care less about the texting but I've never had a girl show so much interest and comfort when together and then not text me on her own. She always answers my text for meetups with enthusiasm and when we do text it seems normal, she just never initiates it.
Had the flu all last week and she somehow got an eye infection so we didn't even talk about meeting up.
My next step is to not contact her at all and wait for her move. On the next meetup I will be a little more distant and not initiate any kissing or hand holding and see how that goes.